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The Real Housewives of NJ: Who is Tommy Manzo?

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The biggest question of the first season of The Real Housewives of New Jersey was where is Dina’s husband? In a show that follows these women and their families, it raised a big question mark that Tommy Manzo made zero appearances on the show.

Dina has claimed that her husband decided he did not want to be on TV, which is strange considering the fact that he appeared on VH1′s My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding not too long ago. Their episode can be viewed below. The highlights on their episode included -

  1. They invited over 600 people to their nuptials.
  2. Dina admitted Tommy had cheated on her numerous times during their 5 year relationship.
  3. Tommy saying he was marrying Dina because it was the right thing to do.
  4. They supposedly ended up spending $1,150,000 on their wedding.
  5. Dina admits Tommy was dating someone else for a year during their relationship, basically two timing her.

Interesting. A skinnier Caroline Manzo also makes appearances during this episode. Others have speculated Tommy did not want to do the show because he was unhappy with the way he came off on the VH1 show.

Tommy, 44, co-owns the Brownstone along with Caroline’s husband, Al Manzo.

We have been reporting the rumors circulating that Tommy and Dina are separated, and that the separation is allegedly his reason for not being on the show. A source alleged Tommy had moved into an apartment near the brownstone with a younger girlfriend.

More pictures of Tommy are below-

New Jersey Residents – Do you know the real deal with Dina and Tommy? Feel free to share in the comments.

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Photos courtesy of Thefablife.



63 Responses so far | Have Your Say!

  1. dina is beautiful. if this loser doesn’t want her who cares, she could have better asnytime she decides she wants better. he’s a goon.

  2. Who is Tommy Manzo, check out his body language on the video/photo of them on the couch. He wants as far away from her as he can get. Tommy humilated Dina during the wedding show and talked to her like she was a dog in front of his office staff. He told her to GO away..and she marries this PIG anyway.
    Dina was right, the wedding was a big party for The Brownstone ala Tommy.

    Dina shouldn’t walk..she should run away from Tommy Manzo and hope she survives.

  3. The negative body language I am referring to is the picture at the very top. There is an editors cut and the whole time Tommy doesn’t move near Dina. This just sticks out at me.

    What kind of fiancee says he “will have to kill his bride if she doesn’t marry him”? Really…think about it.

  4. Wow, so this is the mysterious Tommy Manzo. For some reason, I’d pictured him looking something like Teresa’s husband, Joe.

    So this is the husband who, as rumor has it, is shacking up with a younger woman across the street from their business. Although, I read elsewhere that, not only did Danielle start and circulate this rumor, but that she also made a play for him in her psychotic attempt to destroy Dina’s life. Normally, I’d think far too much blame is being heaped upon one woman, but Danielle is anything but normal, so I’m open to the possibility of her guilt.

    I feel like I’m missing a big piece of the puzzle by not having seen this footage from ‘My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding’, so I appreciate Marti’s informed comments, especially concerning Tommy Manzo’s body language. Interesting!

  5. I distinctly remember watching that “wedding” show.

    Dina walked around to her guests’ tables showing them her jewelry & TELLING them how much each piece cost. *rolling eyes*

    I also remember her near “breakdown” because Tommy was being being very inconsiderate, demanding & couldn’t have cared less about her feelings….

    Shoulda bought a CLUE Dina…..

  6. There are numerous “reports” that Tommy Manzo is gay, and that this is the reason for their supposed separation. No way of knowing if this is true unless you dig up one of his possible boy toys, but more than one blog/source has discussed it.

  7. this is a complete opposite depiction of what real housewives depicted dina as. im appaulled by this whole video. her daughter’s best interest wasnt at heart when she married him. this video shows the true her. getting belittled by tony in front of her own daughter. caroline aint stick up for her lil sister then. she is a gold digger for sure. shes smart for marrying him for the money and shes dumb for ever expecting his love time or affection ever. and notice how they never had childrent together. thank God. dina’s daughter has a very smart mouth might i add.

  8. and notice how she cared more about the wedding than tony. if this is what you call a wedding i pray never to wed, and caroline got so fat.

  9. tommy* w/e his name is

  10. tommy is hot but looks like an a-hole.

  11. I’m with you nycgirl. I must say I was also very surprised to see the way the acted during her wedding show compared to her “persona” on the Real housewives show. It seems to be two different people.

    The “I’m a bitch, I don’t take crap from anyone” Dina was missing from My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding. In her place was a needy and insecure woman.

  12. He’s HOT? LOL. That’s nuts. I’d sooner date JOE than that guy, and that’s not saying MUCH at all!

    Jeez.

    I’d say that this show and the RHW show pretty much tell me all that I need to know about this family.

    They took the fun right out of this series, imo.

  13. The million dollar jewlery Dina was showing off was not hers. If you recall Caroline walking up the stairs to Dina’s room to help her get ready for the wedding, she says she has the jewlery, and is holding it all in her hand. The Jewlery either belonged to Tiny (not in the mob) Manzo’s Mother….or it was Caroline’s.

    Tiny (not in the mob) Manzo had a half a million dollar life insurance policy that he took out three weeks before he was murdered. The Insurance company didn’t want to pay because he lied on his application about his diabetes. The Court made the Insurance Company pay and just charged the (not in the mob) Manzo’s the 3,000 dollar premium.

    I digress, my guess, the million dollar jewels came from money out of the casino Tiny (not in the mob) Manzo fleeced.

    You know, for someone who wants everyone to believe they are not Mob related, Caroline sure does lay it on thick to the contrary..”My family,..We are thick as theives”. Blah…blah..mobster talk..blah..blah.

    And how is Al (not in the mob) Manzo’s best friend, Former NYPD (not in the mob) police commissioner Bernie Kerik ??? Bernie got Caroline the German Sheopherd to Protect her………..

    Birds of a feather and all that.

  14. For those that don’t know who Tiny (not in the mob) Manzo is. (He weighed 350 lbs) He is the (not in the mob) Father of Al and Tommy (not in the mob) Manzo. He was a Gambino soldier who fleeced a casino and he was knocked off by the Gambino family with his partner in crime. Both found, murdered in the trunk of their car.

    Caroline and Dina will tell you he was not in the mob, and the crime was never solved, and everyone was clueless to why he was murdered. Local Law Enforcement will tell you that Tiny (not on the mob) was a Gambino Soldier and was murdered for the theft at the casino.

    I picture an old suitcase full of green backs somewhere at the Brownstone. Nothing like old money.

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    italian girl

    Thank you Marti! I’ve been saying that if Caroline really wanted to put these mafia rumors to rest, why in the world does she use phrases like “thick as theives” and hang around Kerik? Perhaps she has no idea that the rest of us, who actually AREN’T IN THE MOB, don’t do stuff like that because it would draw attention to the fact THAT WE COULD BE IN THE MOB? The only thing that she’s proven is that they are probably IN THE MOB!

  16. 16
    rhousewivesnj

    hmm marti, you seem to have a lot of interest in Dina and happen to know WAY more than most about their real life… i’m assuming you know her?

  17. 17
    Rosemary Samaniego

    I THINK THAT PEOPLE ARE JUST HATERS, AND SHOULD LEAVE THE MANZO’S ALONE. THEY SIGN UP FOR THE SHOW NOT THE WHOLE FAMILY SO LEAVE THEM ALONE, AND LET THEM LIVE THEIR LIVES. I BET ANYTHING THOUGH THAT DANIELLE IS GOING TO SPILL SECRETS ABOUT THE FAMILY, WHEN SHE NEEDS MONEY AND BECOMES BROKE. SO MARTI SEEING U KNOW A LOT ABOUT THEM. DO U KNOW WHAT DANIELLE DID TO THEM THAT MADE THEM STOP TALKING TOO HER.

  18. Just watched the show MBFFW and I still love Dina and thought she was great. Tommy, I don’t know, he seems to have been very involved in the business but what man isn’t and if the family didn’t work so hard they would not have such a successful Brownstone. Caroline has “matured” physically but so have most people our age. Just another family trying to live life the best they can.

  19. Marti and Italian girl right on

  20. tommy is gay and married dina at joe and caroline’s direction. good for the family, good for business. dina’s transition into event-planning coincided with her marriage to a guy who owns a major event venue? i think she knew what she was getting.

  21. sorry, meant Al Manzo and caroline, not joe.

  22. But Rachel and atlguy, where is the information coming from that Tommy is gay? This is intriguing!

    If Tommy is gay, then surely he and Dina would’ve worked out an arrangement beneficial to them both and stuck with it, else why go through all the trouble and huge expense (especially in their case) of a wedding and a marriage? Oh, unless it was always understood that they would divorce. Hmmmmm.

    And what about that woman Tommy’s suppose to be living with across the street from the Brownstone?

  23. tommy and dina are cuter than poop! i love dina; her sense of humor, her depth of emotion, etc. etc. the thing you take from this wedding is not the “bling” but the fact of what she said, if they didn’t love each other they wouldn’t be getting married! and every marriage, every relationship has its speed bumps!

  24. Dina needs to get rid of this guy, and focus on her daughter. Kids grow up so fast you never see it coming. She doesn’t need Tommy, and she surely can get a much better man than him. I’m all for her – she seems the realist, except for Caroline, of all the women.

  25. EVERYONE LISTEN UP……Let me tell you about the ‘REAL’ Tommy Manzo! I knew him ‘very well’ during his courtship with Dina. He is a tremendous person, who would do anything for anyone, anytime/anywhere! He is a stand up guy, who works like a dog, to give the people close to him, the very best his hard work has to offer! Dina a.k.a Queenie, is a very lucky woman, who should count her blessings and be grateful for every minute she has to spend with Tommy. For all you ‘haters’ out there- if you could spend 5 minutes with Tommy and realize that he isn’t the bad guy here….I wonder who is???? The only man Dina makes very happy is Neiman Marcus!! Ive said my peace and now I feel better. The Housewives of NJ are truly a boring group of women, who have nothing better to do with their lives that hate on each other. Sad! They should’ve just kept the series to the O.C. they are the best! They are so much hotter than NJ, NYC and Atlanta. Since when did being a fat ugly housewife interest, bring on so much attention! I don’t care how much money you have!!!!

  26. DD, WOW you sound like either a woman scorned or a panting puppy dog waiting for someone to give her a bone!! (pun intended!)This was an old topic and you came on here balls to the wall to paint a pretty picture of “stand-up guy” Tommy & a not so pretty picture of HIS WIFE, Dina, the BEAUTIFUL woman he married. You knew him “very well” during his courtship with Dina & feel that she should count her blessings to be with him?!? Jealous, much? If you are such good friends with Tommy, do you really think you should be badmouthing HIS WIFE on a comment board? You must live in NJ too because you don’t seem to have anything better to do with your life than to hate on someone who got the man with the money and all the perks (Neiman Marcus included) to go with him. I guess if Dina ends up maimed, missing or murdered we know which direction to start looking, huh?

  27. Carmen, I don’t know who you are, or who you are even defending but let me tell you one thing! I am NEVER the woman scorned, I do the scorning! Obviously, I am T’s friend and have no desire to even meet his “BEAUTIFUL” wife, IF she is even still his wife. I have my own money and don’t need a NJ husband to dish it out to me. P.S. I live in Florida!

  28. I’m not defending anyone. Just found it funny that you were his friend (you knew him real well) while they dated for 5 years prior to marriage and out of the blue you’re on here trash talking his wife, Queenie, someone you’ve never met?
    You may live in Florida (so do I) but something must be burning your ass to get on here and slam not only your friend’s wife but all of the castmates of the Houswives Series minus the OC.

  29. Obviously you are loser who does nothing but blog. Later I’m done here!

  30. There you go again, calling people names when you’ve NEVER met them. I’m beginning to see a patterm….

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    brownH0rnet

    Wow…I LOVE it! DD come on….so you live in Florida. Mark Sanford’s side piece lived in South America but he still managed to see her! You definitely sound super bitter with an ax to grind.

    Tommy gay?!?!?! circumstantially it makes soooo much sense. Him never being around/always running around at the Brownstone. Dina was all googly eyed for him whereas he looked ‘resigned to his fate’. Plus she’s a penniless divorce working stocking shelves in a nail salon and the next she’s a celebrity designer/party planner? Him inviting 600+ people…that whole thing was for show and to “prove” something.

    and the poster who asked “why go through all the trouble and expense of a marriage??”" How naive are you?!?! At the very least have you never seen ANY of the bride shows on TLC or WE? Unfortunately weddings very often have less to do with the marriage than the actual act of getting married and putting on a show.

  32. dina deserves better! she is a class act! she is true to who she is. i like the fact that she can stand up to the stronger personalities and say,
    “i am tired of all of you”. she is not going to lose her sister or her brothers wife and theresa is terrified of losing that family b/c without them she will have no one. so dina in her quiet way runs the show. i hope she continues to set a good example of what a quality woman is. if this is true about her husband, she definately deserves a better man! God Bless you Dina!

  33. If they’re so rich why don’t they have a bigger house? Even skank Danielle lives in a bigger house!

  34. 34
    aguywhoknows

    Tommy is just a Punk, a gangster wannabe, a nobody. This Dina babe should leave him and take whatever she can get from him. If it wasn’t for his family’s money, this guy couldn’t run a clock.

  35. I live in the area and my hairdresser told me he was gay. I don’t know the validity, but there’s something off with that relationship.

  36. 36
    Connie Widner

    I just pray that for Dina’s sake this is just a bad rumor…Dina doesn’t deserve this to happen to her. I feel Dina has a decent and loving soul. Tommy had his chance to sow his ” oats “. Tommy, you said your vows before God and all your friends..Honor them!!!!!

  37. 37
    skoksvalley

    WHY would you marry someone that has cheated on you numerous times? Do you think they are going to change? It is hard to feel sorry for someone who is this unhealthy in relationships. “A lot of girls would put up with it” boy he has a lot of respect for women, girls avoid at all costs. “Not having a budget” this type of woman should be avoided by men, guys aren’t just pocketbooks. WAIT they deserve each other. One loves every woman in a hundred miles, the other wants to shop until she drops or files bankruptcy… People what really makes you happy is to be honest, humble, and unmaterialist…

  38. People i been going to brownstone for years, tommy is gay not straight

  39. 39
    Larry Horowitz from Fort Myers, FL

    All I wanna do is zoom a zoom zoom in her boom boom.

  40. this dude is GAY!!!! Dina you deserve better, someone who won’t humiliate you and talk down to you.

  41. There is no girlfriend living with this fruitcake across from The Browniestone! hahahaha
    He’s as flaming as ……

  42. I have to agree to the gay angle.

  43. Beautiful cpl and beautiful wedding!!!

  44. He’s handsome and a great sense of humor two great characteristics great guy Dina you go girl!!!

  45. Honestly, if you live anywhere near NY, Long Island, or Jersey you’re spending a pretty penny on a wedding.

  46. 46
    SweetCakes

    *looks around*

    WTF happened in here over the weekend?

  47. 47
    Renee(blew2002@yahoo.com)

    Stop feeling so sorry for Dina. She is a 35 year old woman. She was with that man for five years before she married him. She knew exactly what she was getting married to. Also, yes she is very pretty but that doesn’t mean anything.

  48. 48
    jrzzzygrl123

    dina has been shopping around for a divorce attorney. she had a consultation with a firm in glen rock. she and tommy live seperate lives.

  49. Tommy, your the man!!! I would kill for a wedding like that. She’s worth the money. Dina, U GO GIRL!!!

  50. The NJ HOUSEWIVES OF NJ family can call me anytime. U guys rock!! NJ rocks!!