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OC Housewives Simon and Tamra Barney’s New War of Words

Simon and Tamra Barney

After a few weeks of silence, it seems Tamra Barney and Simon Barney are back at it again.  Despite their past pleas and promises to make their impending divorce peaceful for the sake of their kids, their actions continue to tell a different story.

According to TheDirty website, Real Housewives of Orange County star Simon posted the following message on his facebook page this past weekend: “It was Tamra’s weekend to have the kids & she left & went to LA with Lynne, Frank & her Boy Toy. She was suppose to return Sunday but she called and said she got “Stuck” in LA. LA is only 45 min. away how do you get “Stuck”? But yet she had pics of them out at lunch & shopping yesterday.”

A quick look at Simon’s facebook page this morning shows no mention of the above post, but there’s a good chance he has since deleted it.

Tamra however didn’t take too well to the post/accusation and sent the site’s owner, Nik Richie (yes the same Nik Richie who just married former Bachelor winner Shayne Lamas), the following text message -

“Hi Nik, I just read the recent post about me going to L.A.  It makes me sick that Simon stoops to such low levels to make me look bad.  I’m not going to get into a public pissing match with this bitch! But it is all a lie to make me look bad.  He is mad cause I was out having fun WITHOUT him. His control issues will never stop.  I hope the man gets help soon.”

A screenshot of Tamra’s text message is below.  Tamra and Simon both need to stop airing their dirty laundry and start acting like adults, at least for the sake of their kids.

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tamra-barney-textTamra’s text message to Nik Richie



20 Responses so far | Have Your Say!

  1. I wonder what went wrong. How do you go from being crazy in love with your husband to hating each other within one year? Kind of sad. It was refreshing to see two people be so into eachother after 10 years of marriage.

  2. I used to live in Orange County and some days it took 2 + hours to get to LAX!
    45 minutes late is nothing compared to leaving the kids with your soon to be ex mom in law so you can go to Vegas to stalk your soon to be ex wife when it was supposed to be your weekend with the kids

  3. 3
    Help Me Rhonda

    Simone (NOT a typo) is a whiny bitchass.

  4. I don’t get it ..What’s the big freakin’ Deal?? Grow the F-Up Simon!!

  5. He is grasping at anything he can to make her look bad and himself the martyr
    He’s desperate!

  6. 6
    RealitySuxs

    She knew it was her weekend with the kids – she should not have planned anything. She knows Simon is an a-hole – why give him ammunition? She can go to LA anytime … she should put her new man and that ditz Lynne before her scheduled weekend. I don’t like Simon, but I think Tamra needs to get her priorities straight.

    The judge handling their divorce needs to tell BOTH of them to stay the hell off the web airing their dirty laundry. – it will hurt their children and they are both too damn selfish to realize it.

  7. Lauren, in the show Tamra(or Tammy Sue) stated that her marriage was really over 5 years ago, and then she got pregnant with her youngest. So really, she faked it for 5 years, and just used Simon for his money!!! Another reason for her insane jealousy, she really wanted to be free and single like you know who. And Reality Suxs, you are totally right. Since when do you take off with your new boytoy when it’s YOUR weekend with the kids??? Just another example of her selfishness. Tamras first priority is….Tamra!!!

  8. OMG Simon needs someone to kick his ass.
    I saw him out with Philly boy and he is a little guy who has LMS and needs someone to show him who is the boss.
    He started a facebook page with Phil and encouraged people to join, He called it Simon Barney is the man,
    LOL

    He makes me throw up. I could have kicked his ass right there, but I was afraid he was going to get faint and his knees might buckle and he might get faint again like he did when he saw Tamra out with Eddie who he claims was his BFF.

    Simon is a whiny little man who need psychiatric help. He tried to control Tamra and was able to while the kids were young and he figured by getting her pregnant, he could keep her barefoot and in the kitchen, but as the kids grew older, he was upset that Tamra wanted to go out, to have friends and he didn’t like any of her friends, which he proved by treating them all like shit.

    He kept saying Tamra was talking to him like Vicki talks to Donn and told everyone that Donn called him all the time crying on his shoulder about the way Vicki was treating him but never said that in front of Donn so Donn could comment.

    Simon Barney is a sad little man who is jealous and needs to shut his mouth and stop spreading rumors about Tamra.
    He is hurting the children with his lies and accusations.

    Someone needs to remind him that HE filed for divorce and HE need to move on with his life and find someone who he can control or get the help he needs and finds a normal relationship.

    The bad thing about all of this is the kids are going to end up suffering because he cannot keep his mouth shut. I hope the judge gives Tamra full custody of them and only allows him to see the kids with supervision cause God only knows the things he is saying to them when he has them.
    He cannot shut his mouth, and keeps putting his foot in it.

    Someone needs to slap some reality into this piece of Garbage.

  9. I could never love a man who treated a woman like Simon treated Vicki. I don’t care if she said the worst most vile things of you on this side of the planet but the way he acted towards a woman is disgusting. I would be afraid to think of how he is in private if he can muster so much hate in public. Gross! Gross! Gross! Tamra is no saint either but at least she isn’t trying to bad mouth him at every chance she gets.

  10. Simon is a control freak. Thankfully Tamra woke up and smelled the coffee.

  11. does anyone know simon’s sign? methinks he’s either a capricorn, virgo or aquarius since he’s got some serious control issues…not that tamra is any better

  12. Rhonda hit the nail on the head. Simon better watch out…or he’ll start complete the process and start ovulating.

  13. Pardon the typo…you know what I mean. I hate it when my typing skills screw up my commenting brilliance. :\

  14. i just feel so bad for the kids. tamra would rather go out partying then spend a weekend with her kids. that should tell you something about her.

  15. After the hitler comment I have no time for this piece of shit!!! His true controlling colors came out with that one word!!! Assholes like him need to be put in their place – the trash heap.

    This man has completely ruined any sympathy coming from me!!! Not that I would’ve given him any – he really creeped me out this past season.

  16. 16
    SweetCakes

    @14 ben:

    First, let me say that I am in no way a fan of either Tamra or Simon. However, you don’t know the specifics behind the trip. You only know what the media has decided to force feed you. As a single mother myself, there have been times when a situation like this has occured with me but that in no way means I chose some man or partying over my children.

    This is NOT the 50′s. Women are allowed to have a life OTHER than their children. How do you know that Simon hasn’t done the exact same thing? You don’t because you’re basing your opinion off what the MEDIA has said and not the facts.

    Come on…grow up and start thinking like an adult before making such a stupid judgement on someone you don’t even know.

    FOR THE RECORD: I am not a Tamra fan or a Simon fan. I think they are both famewhores. Although, Simon seems a tad bit desperate these days…..

  17. Sweetcakes… good point, all these stories we comment about are what the media has force fed us! Including Gretchens “stories”. And another good point you made “Come on…grow up and start thinking like an adult before making such a stupid judgement on someone you don’t even know.” Could that be applied elsewhere? ya think?

  18. 18
    SweetCakes

    @ Anica….of course it could be applied in any number of cases. Including myself. ;)

  19. Sweetcakes :)

  20. 20
    I'm Laughing

    Anica – Are ya feelin a little defensive? What does ‘Gretchen’ have to do with this posting? Oh yeah, ya must be one of those posters crawling all over different sites, spewing your ‘intelligent’ wisdom. Get a life!