Ahhhh… New Jersey. Never a dull moment in the garden state! Melissa Gorga and Teresa Giudce just cannot stop talking about each other or blaming each other for the notorious Real Housewives of New Jersey feuding! They talk about each other so much I want to start a collection for every time one of them utters the others’ name. Then, I’ll be buying red bottoms left and right, too!
In response to Teresa’s recent sit-down where she promised that Melissa and Joe were invited to Gia Giudice‘s birthday party, Melissa spoke to HollywoodLife about the status of her relationship with Teresa and let everybody know she will definitely be at Gia’s party. Hopefully no one gets in a drunken brawl! Also, can I just say it’s pretty lame of them to be dragging Gia’s birthday into this ridiculous feud!
“I’m actually going to Gia and Milania’s birthday party on Saturday [Jan. 28],” Melissa broadcast while attending the premiere of One for the Money. “This will be the first time that we get together [since] the reunion. She’s been with Apprentice, and I’ve been doing a lot of appearances promoting my single, so we’ve both been really busy.”
Melissa claims she is anxious for the families to put the past behind them. And certainly exonerates herself form any blame for the family upheaval. “I honestly have tried everything I can to mend the relationship between Teresa and her brother,” Melissa clarifies.
“I think a lot of people were very confused and thought it was between Teresa and me, but a lot of it does stand between a brother and sister. Somehow I get caught in the middle.”
The “On Display” AutoTune-er is positive Season Four will show viewers a different side of her role in the battle of the sister-in-laws from hell. Seriously, they need to go on the WWE and hash it out already! “On season four, you are going to see me really do everything in my power to make it better,” Melissa shares. “I might get slapped in my face, I might not. You have to watch and see, but I can put my head on my pillow at night.”
Melissa also promises to watch Teresa on Celebrity Apprentice. “She will fight to the death,” Melissa assures us.
Speaking of family members who don’t get along with Teresa, Kathy Wakile is giving her opinion on the family drama. “I got a lot of heat [from fans] saying I went against my blood. Well, Joe’s my blood too, and I never went against Teresa,” Kathy insists. “I tried to make her see where she and Joe were misreading each other.”
Additionally, Kathy is adamant that editing definitely plays a role in how viewers perceive things. “If you said it, you said it, but you don’t know what I said before and you don’t know what I said after,” she explained to the WaynePatch. “So where editing comes into play and where you might get a little ‘oh, well I said something really nice before that but they didn’t put that in there.’”
Kathy cites last season’s Posche Fashion Show fight as an example. “I said I was trying to reason with her [Teresa] intelligently, and then they got the clip ‘I guess intelligence is just a foreign language to her,’ and they put that somewhere else. That’s editing.” Good lord, that fashion show is the nexus for every bit of unsavory drama on RHONJ!
Confessing that doing the show has been a challenge, Kathy reveals the Christening brawl occurred on her second day of filming, which initially gave viewers a negative opinion of her. Nonetheless as the season progressed fans started to understand her perspective and saw a different side of her issues with Teresa.
“I think the story started to unravel a little bit and people got to see reactions back and forth and how I continued to try to reconcile with Teresa,” Kathy believes. “I think people got to see a little bit more of who I was and how I am with my family.”
“I don’t like trouble; I don’t,” Kathy insists, claiming she never wanted to get stuck in the middle of the Gorgadice family drama! “I really cringe at confrontation. I try to avoid it all times.” Well, then she’s in the wrong business!
Despite the drawbacks of participating in a show which broadcasts all your flaws and missteps to the world, Kathy believes fans will have a more positive experience watching the fourth season. “It’s a really great, fun season, season four and there’s a lot going on and a lot happening, and Jersey comes alive in the summertime,” Kathy shares.
Of course, viewers will also get more exposure into her rocky relationship with Teresa, which definitely isn’t Kathy’s fault. I’m pretty sure blaming others is the state pastime!
WILL SEASON FOUR SHOW US A DIFFERENT SIDE OF MELISSA AND KATHY? IS IT POSSIBLE FOR THIS FAMILY TO WORK THINGS OUT?











these people fall in and out with each other quicker than I can keep up. Glad I don’t live there.
Eveie-LMAO! Same here sister.
See, Sheila used to be team Melissa even AFTER the Christening. Check this out. She replied to this tweet:
@PutYourHairUp
It’s Al Sharpton! Everyone HAS to read @JacLaruita’s Bravo Blog this week. Awesome. Haha. Suck it @Teresa_Giudice http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-new-jersey/season-3/blogs/jacqueline-laurita/an-eye-opener?page=0,0&Matchmaker%2FDallasSiteTakeover=1
16 Aug via web
This is Sheila’s reply:
SheilaGiudice3 Sheila Giudice
@ @PutYourHairUp @jaclaruita @teresa_giudice haha
16 Aug
She though the blog was funny. Look at this tweet:
SheilaGiudice3 Sheila Giudice
@melissagorga hey Melissa!!! I can’t believe how big the kids got. They are beautiful!!!
8 Aug
These tweets were all AFTER the Christening aired.
Going to lunch. BRB
I am fasting and praying today to atone for my wrong doings. Why is it today that people have brought in Chinese, and any other smell good food.
Well she is definitely team T now. Maybe whatever happened wasn’t all T’s fault and drew the lines of division even deeper.
the nov 2nd tweet was in response to joey’s reaction to the story of the supposed set up that we all know now was either bullshit or set up by the Bravo producers for ratings. It was very sad that he jumped to the conclusion that his sister had anything to do with it and still hasn’t grown up enough to attend those little girls’ birthday party.
joegorga Joe Gorga
Family is family of course but I shouldn’t defend my wife and children they r my family what kind of man would I be!
1 Nov
joegorga Joe Gorga
Did u ask her the same quesRT @NatalieMathis19: @joegorga why don’t you follow your own sister on twitter? But you’ll follow all her haters?
1 Nov
joegorga Joe Gorga
Bye byeRT @bbartolomucci: @joegorga too late! U trash ur sis on twitter u lose fans. done!
1 Nov
joegorga Joe Gorga
I really wish the haters will hang with me for one day there will be not one more negative comment and say what a man no 1 can control him
1 Nov
joegorga Joe Gorga
If she never wrote it I wouldn’t have to respond… always has to stir things up when they are quiet.
1 Nov
joegorga Joe Gorga
I’m sick, wish she could just love my family & stop trying to tear us apart. Fact. this was way before the show, the show is her excuse
October 31 blog from T makes a lot of sense (whether she wrote it or not):
As you saw in the finale, after months of heartache on both sides, my family and I were in a great place. We’re still a work in progress, but I had no idea Melissa and Kathy would come to the reunion for Season 3 with guns blazing. They had made little lists of how I hurt them, they were throwing jabs at me all over the place. First I was confused, because it didn’t make sense. In real life, we’ve gotten over all that tit-for-tat stuff, so I didn’t know why they were bringing it up again. Second, I didn’t see how it made sense for the Season 3 reunion when we all just made up. Why don’t Melissa and Kathy want to show our family as happy and reunited for even one week? It makes me so sad.
It was clear pretty quickly that everyone was out for my blood. I don’t know why. I really can’t keep up with it anymore. One day Melissa is at my house for dinner, the next day she’s saying we don’t speak. Kathy and I made up, then when Andy asks her if we’re good, she looks at Caroline to see what she’s supposed to say.