No one ever likes to admit when they're wrong. It's humbling and very embarrassing…even more so when you're eating crow about the Bachelor franchise. Until I fell for quirky One F Jef Holm on the Bachelorette finale, I was a tried and true Arie Luyendyk Jr. fan. In fact, I loved that Emily Maynard chose Jef because that meant that Arie was still on the market. In addition to reality television, I am also somewhat of a racing fanatic. Weird, I know. Since Carl Edwards is married, I hung all of my hopes on Arie.
Alas, those hopes have been dashed…along with my once Pollyanna-esque views that Arie was a happy-go-lucky, love struck dude who enjoyed awkwardly intense make-out sessions. It turns out my friend (a Sean Lowe fan, go figure) tried to warn me that Arie was just another player, and it seems she was right. Why else would he be caught sucking face with fame harlot Courtney Robertson less than a week after she was able to shake former fiance Ben Flajnik? At least she upgraded in the hair department!
According to Reality Steve, Emily and Jef are no longer engaged. "This isn’t a rumor, I didn’t hear this 5th hand, and I’m not making something up for attention," Steve wrote in his blog. "All I’m here to tell you is that Jef and Emily are no longer an engaged couple and have broken up."
“Right now, they are in the process of figuring out how they are going to present the breakup to the media, when they’re gonna release the statement, and who the statement will be released to," Steve added. "Could be tomorrow, could be in a few days, could be next week, could be in two weeks.”
Uh oh! Jef Holm's ex-girlfriend (of Burger King fame) is trying to blow up the picture-perfect romance Emily Maynard is shoving down our throats displaying on Twitter.
Jef's ex Kaylee Shepherdclaims Jef told her he is only with Emily to keep up appearances. Kaylee says Jef told her he "was in love, but things have changed."
Kaylee alleges that she and Jef have met twice since September 16, once at a hotel and once at Burger King. "Jef said their relationship isn't what it seemed, it's basically for TV," says Kaylee. "He said, 'If I was happily engaged, I would never have texted you.'"
According to Kaylee: Jef admitted to her that the sexting scandal really happened. As a result and despite Emily's apologies and pleas to reconnect, Jef was over the romance. Jef gave Emily two options: go to the media with the dirty cheating truth or pay him half of her Bachelorette salary to pretend it never happened. Desperately clinging to her wholesome image, Emily chose to pay Jef.
Chris Harrisonconfirmed the news to SheKnows on the Primetime Emmy Awards red carpet last night. When asked whom Chris would like to see as the next Bachelor… perhaps Sean, Chris answered, "Well, a little known secret, he has been chosen."
Reportedly, Jef reached out to an old flame, and then she agreed to meet him at Burger King (honest, I couldn't make this stuff up). Did they try on BK King crowns, talk, eat whoppers? We're not sure. Sadly, the source skimped on the details.
“Jef has been calling and texting his ex-girlfriend for months and she ignored him for a while but just last night they met up,” a source close to Jef's ex toldRadar Online. The source claimed Jef and his ex-girlfriend met at the fast food restaurant over the weekend and made plans to meet again on Monday. McDonalds next? Jef's rep denied the claims.
I'm crossing my fingers that BacheloretteEmily Maynard and her Prince Charming One F Jef Holm are actually going to make it work. I mean, if those crazy kids can make, any member of the Bachelor franchise stands a fighting chance, right? RIGHT? Next…
The couple is still vehemently denying the rumors that Emily cheated via inappropriate texts. I'll admit, I am still skeptical about these rumors. I realize the source is Jef's misguided brother which gives the gossip a ton of credibility, but I just don't seem Emily as a girl who would get her kicks from receiving lurid texts. Sending, maybe, but receiving? That's just tacky. The pair has revamped their denial, switching it up from "we are super duper in love and perfect and only have eyes for each other" to a much more relatable "we're not perfect, but we make it work." It's a more plausible excuse at least…
Is Sean Lowe the next Bachelor? Well, apparently, he's the only "name" still in the running.
On August 31st, Arie Luyendyk Jr.announced that he is pulling out of the race to be the next Bachelor. Arie tweeted, "The Bachelorette was an amazing experience but I will not continue with the Bachelor. Ultimately I realized my heart is tied to the race track and my career is my main priority. I'm looking forward to getting back on the track."
As you can imagine, Arie's fans went crazy. I may have shed a tear myself. Seriously… the good looks… the kisses… the sense of humor… Arie would be an entertaining Bachelor. Did someone just mumble cough <but he's a player>? Eh, their standards haven't too high in recent years anyway. Case in point – Jake PavelkaandBrad WomackPart 2. Arie responded to me his fans on Twitter, "Lots of encouraging remarks. Thank you for all the love, the future looks bright and you will see more of me soon enough. #LoveMyFans."
The craziness of the Bachelor Pad never fails to disappoint. While the resident good girl from Boring Gray Flannel McGee's season seems to have found love with the baggage hating (unless its Louis Vuitton) bad guy, it makes me wonder, do opposites really attract?
According to sources the answer is no. The very tan sweetheart Lindzi Cox has been seen canoodling with resident playboy bad guy Kalon McMahon, but did they outlast the insanity of the Bachelor Pad's third season?