The Bachelor’s Jake Pavelka appeared on The Ellen Show today to discuss his current season.
Jake was however coy when asked by Ellen DeGeneres whether or not he found his soulmate on The Bachelor. “Did you find someone?” DeGeneres asks him. “Because you are done shooting it, right?”
“Yeah, we finished up a couple of weeks ago,” Jake replied. “You know, you don’t have to choose anybody.”
He did however admit to falling in love with more than one woman. According to Jake, he says he didn’t know it was possible to have feelings for multiple women at once — until he filmed the Bachelor.
“The world tells you that your heart can only be in love with one woman at a time, and that is absolutely not true,” the 31-year-old pilot says. “That is one of the things I learned on the show. Your heart can fall for a lot of people at the same time and it’s painful.”
In other Bachelor news, the host Chris Harrison continues to trash contestant Rozlyn Papawho was accused of cheating on Jake during the show’s filming. In a new interview with the New York Post, Chris says he regrets going easy on Rozlyn when he confronted her.
“I can’t let that happen again. I just need to go out there and butcher a girl on live TV like she is on a witness stand.” He however would like her to return to the show’s reunion to tell her side of the story. “Hopefully she will come on to the ‘Women Tell All’ episode and sit down and talk to me,” Harrison tells The Post.
Chris also confirms the producers identity is Ryan Callahan, he is surprisingly friends with Callahan and wishes his name and identity never become public. “It really sucks that [Callahan’s] name came out and his picture came out, because that was never our intention,” says Chris.
More details are coming out about the Bachelorstaffer involved in the affair scandal with contestant Rozlyn Papa. The said staffer, Ryan Callahan (pictured above), was a Senior Producer on the show. He has also worked on other shows including The Bachelorette, PussyCat Dolls and The Cougar.
According to E! News, Callahan “had a girlfriend that worked on the show at the time. They were together, and he cheated on her with [Papa].” The girlfriend has since broken up with him since details of the affair hit. RadarOnline also reports Callahan is still married, though his wife filed for divorce in May 2009.
And while 28-year-old Papa continues to maintain that she did not have a sexual relationship with Callahan, others continue to say things did get physical with Callahan. Jake Pavelka says in an interview airing Monday on the Ellen DeGeneres Show that other women in the house came up to tell him they had seen Rozlyn and Callahan getting physical with each other.
So what exactly does physical mean? Well recently eliminated contestant Ashley Elmore shed some light on that during a recent interview. According to Ashley, she heard her costars say they saw Rozlyn “snuggling” and “cuddling” with the producer, including lying on a couch with her hand on his thigh.
Jake also says he had began to develop feelings for Rozlyn. “I had strong feelings for Rozlyn,” says Pavelka, 31. “We had an unbelievable date.”
The Bachelor affair scandal continues to heat up as the show’s host Chris Harrison reveals Rozlyn Papa continued having a relationship with the fired Producer even after leaving the show.
Chris makes this revelation in his latest blog for Entertainment Weekly. “I can tell you here that since Rozlyn left the show she and the staffer have continued their relationship and have seen each other several times,” wrote Chris.
He continues, “You heard me say in the episode that Rozlyn and one of our staffers entered into an inappropriate relationship. I realize this is somewhat vague and open to interpretation, so let me be more specific. It was an inappropriate relationship that got physical. This was not just about one person’s ‘feelings’ for another. We would never go to such extremes because of a schoolyard crush.”
Chris claims other women in the house witnessed the inappropriateness between the two, and that things did get physical between them, he doesn’t expand on what ‘physical’ means. “First of all, several girls in the house independently witnessed the inappropriate behavior firsthand, and they came forward and told producers what was taking place,” he wrote. “Second, the staffer came forward and confessed everything himself. He told executive producers everything about his inappropriate physical relationship with Rozlyn.”
Monday’s episode of The Bachelor concluded with Rozlyn getting kicked off for what the show called an “inappropriate relationship” with a staffer. Rozlyn has come out swinging at the show claiming they embellished the story for the sake of ratings. She has denied having a sexual affair with the said staffer, but does admit she continues to have a “close relationship” with him.
Rozlyn continues to speak out against the show in her latest interview on Mix 103.7’s Fisher in the Morning show in Richmond, Va., her hometown. “This is a very scripted, edited television show,” she said Tuesday . “It’s just for entertainment. It does not represent who I really am.”
Rozlyn however has no regrets with doing the show, “I don’t regret it,” she said. “Hopefully, people will see that it’s just a show.” She however regrets not taking things further with the said staffer. “There was no making out! Unfortunately, I did not get any out of this big sex scandal that supposedly happened. If I had known that I was going to get accused of it, maybe I would have gone for it!”
The Bachelor’s Rozlyn Papa – accused of having an inappropriate relationship with a male producer – apparently has a criminal past as well. RadarOnline uncovered some arrest records of the 28 year old contestant which show she has been arrested a total of 3 times and even sentenced to jail.
According to Radar, all three of those arrests occurred back in 1999 when Rozlyn was residing in Richmond, VA. She was arrested twice in 1999 for petty theft. She was arrested on September 5, 1999 and was found guilty by a judge, receiving a sentence of 2 months and 2 days in jail.
She appealed the conviction and the case was dismissed meaning she didn’t have to spend any time in jail. Rozlyn was then arrested again on December 11, 1999 for petty theft and received a suspended sentence of 12 months and 12 days. That sentence was also dismissed on appeal. Her third arrest came on June 11, 2009 for underage alcohol possession, she was found guilty.
Her other run ins with the law include her being ticketed in 2003 for having expired registration on her car, and also being ticketed for driving without a license in 2007, both charges were dismissed as well.
Rozlyn also continues to speak out against the show. This time around, she’s telling Entertainment Tonight that she feels “betrayed” by the show. “It seems they want the ratings!” she tells ET. Asked if she had sex with a member of the production team, she says, “Absolutely not, no.”
Rozlyn is also scared the show might have tarnished her reputation by labeling her as a cheater. “It really comes down to my son. Why would you go on national television and throw a mom under the bus like that?” she asks.
Jake Pavelka is also opening up in his recent blog about the whole affair drama. According to Jake, it “sucks” to be cheated on. Below is an excerpt from Jake’s blog –
“Yes, the rumors of her cheating on me with a staff member are 100 percent true, with no embellishment. I was having such a great night and then Chris Harrison approached me and the guy looked flustered! I’ve never seen this guy flustered about anything. I think he was embarrassed about what had happened. When he told me the news, my heart dropped and I felt numb.
This is the first time I have been cheated on (to my knowledge) and man, it sucks. I had started to develop feelings for Rozlyn and that’s why I had given her a rose. But what also hurt was the fact that I was friends with the staff member who engaged in the affair. That was hard to swallow. I was so hurt by both of their decisions, but I reminded myself that I still had 14 amazing women there for me, so I composed myself and moved on. After Rozlyn left the show, a few of the girls admitted that they saw her and the staff member inappropriately physical with each other … to put it politically correct. Honestly, I harbor no ill will towards either of them and wish them both the best in life and career. Hopefully they are still together and in love!”
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Jake Pavelka is confirming reports that Rozlyn Papa is indeed the contestant who had an inappropriate relationship with a male producer on the Bachelor, as tonight’s episode will deal with the issue.
“I didn’t believe it at first,” Jake tells Entertainment Tonight. “I’ve never been cheated on. I thought it was something that was being produced and thrown at me. As it was unraveling, I realized it was serious.”
As for reports that ABC is embellishing the affair to be something it’s not (ABC ran a promo claiming it was a sexual affair, Rozlyn has come out denying there was any sex involved), Jake denies this. “Everything that’s going to air Monday is exactly the way it happened. There is no embellishing and there’s no holding back.” Jake also confirms that the staff member is no longer working on the show.
Rozlyn on the other hand continues to speak out against the Bachelor show and ABC. In her latest interview with RadarOnline, The 28-year-old make-up artist from Richmond, Va. accuses ABC of lying to her and manipulating the show. She also claims ABC reneged on their promise to allow her to talk about her 7 year old son, and bring him on the show.
“ABC told me I could bring my son to the show to visit and that I could talk about him each day on the show,” Rozlyn told Radar. “But then they didn’t let me.”
“The other girls on the show all knew about my son and ABC kept telling me to hold off and not tell Jake about him yet. At that point all the other girls knew I had a son and they were spending time alone with Jake and it looked like I was hiding the information.”
RealitySteve also corroborates Rozlyn’s story. According to him, ABC’s plan was to have Rozlyn withhold information about her son, so that by the time Jake found out about it, it would seem like Rozlyn has purposely hid the information from him, thus creating a storyline/scandal for the show. Apparently Rozlyn found out about this when one of the other bachelorettes told her they were asked how they felt about Rozlyn lying to Jake by not telling him she has a son. Rozlyn freaked out on the show’s producers upon discovering this. This led to her confiding and developing a relationship with one of the producers, and ultimately getting kicked off the show.
Rozlyn explains her relationship with the said producer, “No, I did not have a sexual relationship with a producer on the show. What they mean by inappropriate relationship is not what inappropriate relationship means in the real world.”
According to Rozlyn, she and the producer continue to remain “close” friends but are not a couple.
28 year old model Rozlyn Papa,who has been described as one of the most beautiful women in The Bachelor history, is fighting to clear her name in the latest Bachelor scandal.
As we previously reported, Rozlyn has been confirmed to be the woman who will be revealed on next week’s episode as having had an inappropriate relationship with one of the show’s producers. According to ABC and the show’s host Chris Harrison, Rozlyn was immediately sent packing and the producer was fired as well.
While ABC has yet to use the word “sexual affair” to describe what happened, they did run a teaser video which had one of the other bachelorettes saying: “She’s been having this sexual affair with somebody else in The Bachelor house.”
In an exclusive interview with RadarOnline, Rozlyn, vehemently denies having any sexual relationship in the house. “No, I did not have a sexual relationship with a producer on the show,” Rozlyn said.
The show said she was terminated for an “inappropriate relationship” with a producer. “What they mean by inappropriate relationship is not what inappropriate relationship means in the real world,” she told Radar as she defended her reputation.
So what is the current status of her relationship with the said producer? “I had a relationship with someone on the show that didn’t benefit them,” Rozlyn said, referring to the network and the show’s senior producers. “We remained really close but we are not dating now,” Rozyln said of the since-fired producer.
Rozlyn continues, “This is a TV show and it’s made for entertainment but it is a far cry from reality. I know that things on television weren’t always as they seemed, but I had no idea the extent of the show manipulation.”
Last night marked the premier of The Bachelor: On The Wings of Love with new bachelorJake Pavelka, and it did not disappoint as there was the usual mix of desperation and drama amongst the 25 bachelorettes.
Jake eliminated 10 of the women leaving 15 still in the running to win his heart. However the question on everyone’s mind this morning is who is the scandalous bachelorette that cheated on Jake with a crew member? The season preview shows ABC teasing us by revealing of the 15 remaining women will betray Jake. “She’s been having this sexual affair with somebody else in The Bachelor house,” an unidentified bachelorette said in the promos.
So who is this scandalous bachelorette? Well do not read any further if you don’t want to know.
It is none other than 28-year-old model/makeup artist from Richmond, VA Rozlyn Papa. RealitySteve revealed that while Rozlyn did have an inappropriate relationship with a crew member from the show, she did not necessarily have a sexual affair with the male producer.
Bachelor host Chris Harrison also confirmed on Monday that a male producer had a relationship with one of the female contestants during filming and that ABC had to address the situation on camera in an episode this season. He however falled short of calling the relationship a sexual one.
“It was incredibly unfortunate. Horrible decisions were made,” Harrison told Sean Valentine, the morning radio host at KBIG-FM in Los Angeles. “It was embarrassing for us and in fairness to Jake and for the other women, [we said], ‘Let’s nip this in the bud and take care of it.’ And that’s what we did.”
By the way, next week’s episode will officially reveal the affair and the parties involved.
A Photo of the bachelorette accussed of having the affair is below —
Ready or not! Tonight marks the latest season of The Bachelor: On The Wings of Love with Pilot Jake Pavelka. And as we have previously reported, this season will not disappoint as one of Jake’s bachelorettes was caught in a steamy affair with a crew member. Jake has played coy when asked whether or not he found love on the show, he does reveal in an interview with USWeekly magazine that he “went [into the show] on cloud nine and came out the same way.”
TVGuide spoke with the 31-year-old Dallas based pilot about his new season, how he responds to being labeled perfect, and why he has no regrets. Jake also shares a little TMI (too much information) when he reveals his aspirations to became a member of the mile high club. More excerpts from Jake’s interview is below –
TVGuide.com: What did you bring from your experience on The Bachelorette to The Bachelor? Jake Pavelka: When you’re on The Bachelorette, you have a lot of time to think, analyze and go over different conversations you’ve had. You don’t have a cell phone, your parents to talk to, your friends, and everything just slows everything down to a good pace. You start becoming really aware of how what you say affects people and it makes you a lot better at dating and in relationships.
TVGuide.com: Given the show’s not-so-stellar record, are you a bit skeptical of the process? Pavelka: Well, you can have everything in common with somebody, the same goals, same values, same temperament, same dreams, and there’s just not that indescribable magic spark that makes a relationship pop. So I didn’t go in pushing. I knew everybody would be unbelievable, and they were, but I was waiting to see where that spark was going to be. The show does have a bit of a rough history, people breaking up or changing their minds, and that’s OK. I tried to be very honest no matter how painful it was and I just remained really open-minded.
TVGuide.com: So then it’s safe to assume you were in the moment, whether that involved hot tubs or not? Pavelka: My answer to that is I’m going to go on there to be myself. In regards to the hot tub stuff, if I were to go in and meet a girl in Starbucks, date her, start getting really close and then jump into a hot tub with her with a swimsuit on, why not do that? That’s the problem that everybody tacks onto the show, “This isn’t real life.” It really is. So if you go on there trying to be something you’re not, “Well I would get in a hot tub in real life, but I’m not going to do it here because it’s on TV,” it’s almost a little hypocritical. You’re not being yourself and not allowing these women to get to know who you really are.
I stressed to the producers that that’s exactly what needs to happen this season: everybody being themselves. A lot of the dates and different activities we got to do on the show were geared around what I would do in my normal life — what dates scream Jake.
TVGuide.com: Last season, some of your fellow contestants thought you were too perfect. How do you respond to that? Pavelka: Is it perfect or too perfect? [Laughs] Well, being perfect, I think, what a compliment, golly! I don’t know what it is that makes people or made the guys on the show and Jillian say that I was too perfect. Something that I see in the dating world these days is a little bit of a lack of chivalry and it’s gotten so bad that women almost don’t expect it anymore. In my opinion, it doesn’t have anything to do with being independent or as strong as men. I just think it’s something that an attractive, intelligent woman should expect from a man. Just a little bit of chivalry.
TVGuide.com: Do you have dating rules you to like to follow? Pavelka: After an unbelievable date, if I want to call her the next morning, I’m just going to call. If that turns her off, “he’s smothering me, it’s too much too quick,” then that’s OK; we’re probably on two different pages and better now than later. When I like someone, I want them to know. Dating does not have to be that complicated. The one thing that is a little bit different on the show is it’s an accelerated process. If you’re truly interested, you got to lay your heart out there and do it quick and that’s something I’m really good at.
TVGuide.com: Well, since you’re a pilot, I have to ask: Have you joined the mile-high club? Pavelka: [Laughs] I am not a member of the mile-high club, but I’ll leave you with this: I aspire to be, no I don’t aspire to be, I will be.