In an attempt to prove he is not stalking Gretchen Rossi,Jay Photoglou decided to take a lie detector test and submit the results to RadarOnline. Jay is the sleazy guy who’s been claiming to be Gretchen’s ex boyfriend and leaking out every photo they ever took together.
Gretchen obtained a restraining order against him on March 6 on the grounds that Jay had threatened both she and her new boyfriend Slade Smiley. Jay claims he took 2 polygraph tests on March 21st. There’s obviously no way to verify this information, or even whether or not he really took a test. The results according to Jay are below -
Did you threatened to harm Gretchen Rossi? No
Did you threatened to strangle Gretchen Rossi? No
Did you threatened to dispose of Slade Smiley? No
Did threatened to hang yourself in Gretchen Rossi’s bedroom? No
Did you threaten to kill Gretchen Rossi’s dogs? No
Between midnight on 2/17/09 and 2/18/09, did you intentionally dial Gretchen Rossi’s telephone number? Yes
During this call did you make any threats to harm Gretchen Rossi? No
Did you make this phone call with the intention to play a song that had sentimental value to you? Yes
During this phone call did you speak to Gretchen Rossi? No
In the never ending drama of the OC housewives, Jeff’s ex wife and mother of his three children Sharon spoke out recently and cleared the air on the whole Gretchen issue. She posted this as a comment on our other blog. We were able to verify with 100% certainty that the comment was indeed written by Sharon. What she had to say is very interesting.
“My kids do NOT and NEVER have adored Gretchen….they know exactly what she’s about and what she’s up to and has been up to all along and their Dad knew it too. My daughter, Jill making any statement re. Gretchen explained that she simply doesn’t want anymore negative comments written about her Dad which is embarrassing and hurtful to her and her brother and sister. Jill appearing to defend Gretchen (slightly) is done only to quiet any negative statements made about her Dad period. Our three kids, Jennifer, Jill and Jake (Lizzy is not Jeff’s daughter, nor mine…she’s a long-time friend of our daughter Jill) are not fans of Rossi at all and how they describe her in real terms, isn’t nice and hasn’t been nice historically. The fact is, Jeff was never going to marry her and she knows it but likes to play it like they were so much in love (gee…wonder why???). I’ve known Jeff for 25 years and I did visit him in August while he was in the hospital at which time we talked a lot. What I know is totally different than what Gretchen portrays which means, I know the truth and she knows that I know the truth. Sometimes I feel pity for her which is about the most I can feel given all of her lies over the course of time. I really feel sorry for her family, especially her Mom.
My kids are so far above Gretchen in integrity, self-respect and character that it’s really embarrassing that they were ever exposed to her to begin with. Jeff said he was lonely and knew that he appeared desperate to a lot of people, probably both and not unlike a lot of people that are in their mid-life. Gretchen badgered him into being part of this show to begin with and Tamra exposing Gretchen for the fraud she is was gutsy even knowing that she’d experience some backlash from it. Gretchen screwing around on Chris with Jeff and on Jeff with Jay and Jay with Slade naturally would have it’s downside and if Gretchen believed that all of this would remain secret means that she is about as intelligent as a box of rocks. So….Jay exposed her…she’s earned all the disrespect she’s been given and gives to others and if she believes she deserves an iota of respect at all, well….I’m back to the box of rocks intellect again.”
This picture was posted by TMZ today of Gretchen making out with Slade! We can now officially call them a couple. For those not familiar with Slade, he appeared on the 1st and 2nd seasons of the RHOOC as the boyfriend of Jo De LaRosa. Anything is an upgrade from the sleazy Jay Photoglou.
The two were photographed while docked on a boat in Newport Harbor on Wednesday. The new couple were also spotted at a Lakers game earlier this week.
A reader watching a Lakers – Dallas game snapped the above picture of Gretchen with Slade Smiley at the game. Those look like some rather pricey seats. The two were also spotted together last week at a car dealership, guess the dating rumors are true after all.
Gretchen recently spoke to People magazine about Jay Photoglou and not cheating on her late fiance Jeff.
In an all new interview with People, Gretchen finally addresses rumors about Jay Photoglou, the infamous 911 call and denies cheating on her late fiance Jeff.
As you recall, 40 Yr Old Mean Girl Tamra Barney decided it was her duty to “out” Gretchen during the reunion show, accusing her of cheating on her then dying fiance with a man named Jay.
Gretchen admits to People she went out with Jay on a “couple of dates” before she began dating Jeff but ended all romantic ties once she started seeing Jeff. Gretchen says, “Photoglou became a close friend and “confidante.” But when he wanted to take things further, I was not even going to consider that with him.”
Gretchen claims she continued being close friends with Jay after Jeff’s death and has never taken off her engagement ring once since his death (That would explain this photo of her kissing Jay with her ring on). “Every single time he wanted to have something more and I would deny him, he would say, ‘I’m just going to call the press and tell them we have a relationship, He has never been my boyfriend.”
So how does she explain referring to him as her boyfriend in a 911 call? “Because he was standing right in front of me, I was afraid that he was going to be upset that I was giving dispatch any information about him whether it was his real name, whether or not he was my boyfriend.”
Whatever you say Gretchen. Perhaps she would just be better off admitting she used bad judgment in dating Jay. There are plenty of holes in this new story of hers, but what can we do? We still love Gretchen as do many of the OC Housewives fans. Polls still point to her being the fan favorite but she needs to be truthful or not say anything at all!
Gretchen can’t seem to catch a break! In a shocking new interview with the National Enquirer, the ex wife of the late Jeff Beitzel lashes out at Gretchen and refers to her as a “manipulative gold digger” Sharon Bietzel accuses Gretchen of cheating on Jeff the entire time he was sick and claims Jeff knew of her infidelity. Jeff died of cancer on Sept. 13, 2008.
The man Gretchen is accused of cheating with is Jay Photoglou. We poster earlier that Gretchen had gotten a restraining order against Jay this month. TheDirty website posted the above photo of Gretchen and Jay kissing, as you can see, Gretchen is still wearing Jeff’s engagement ring. Gretchen is now rumored to be dating Slade Smiley.
Just weeks before he died, Sharon visited Jeff in the hospital, and he said he knew Gretchen was cheating, she says.
“But in the condition he was in, it really wasn’t that important,” Sharon told The ENQUIRER.
“One of the last things Jeff said was, ‘If I ever get out of this hospital, it’s over between Gretchen and me.’
“No matter how you slice it, Gretchen is a liar. Jeff knew it. I know it, and hopefully the viewers will now know.”
It seems the rumors of Gretchen Rossi dating OC housewives alum Slade Smiley might be true afterall as a reader of TheDirty website claims to have spotted the couple together at a car dealership. The reader says -
” I work at a car dealership, so the other night I’m at work and Gretchen and Slade walk in and shmoozed with our finance guy for a while and then left in a Range Rover. Well today they’re back and sitting in the finance guys office again. Gretchen is wearing some True Religion capris, a wife beater, and some killer cute heels.”