Ben Affleck reportedly wishes to be a part of his ex-wife Jennifer Lopez’s life. However, the actor allegedly feels drained while being with her due to the “constant spotlight.” The news came out after rumors about their rekindled romance began to swirl all around the internet following their undeniable chemistry on the red carpet of their new movie, “Kiss of the Spider Woman.”
Ben Affleck cannot decide if he wants to be with Jennifer Lopez, says source
Ben Affleck allegedly feels undecided about whether he wants to be a part of ex Jennifer Lopez’s life or not. As reported by RadarOnline, a source claimed that “Ben and Jennifer are clearly back in each other’s orbit – and it’s far more than just work.” The person continued, “The chemistry between them is obvious, and it’s stirred up a lot of old feelings.” They also added, “But people close to Ben are worried.” The source further explained that “They feel this reunion could leave him emotionally vulnerable.”
In the meantime, another insider went on to say to the news outlet that Ben Affleck has “never been comfortable with that world – the cameras, the attention, the pressure.” The person continued, “He cares deeply for her (Jennifer Lopez), but she thrives on that lifestyle, and he doesn’t.” The insider also claimed that “That clash is what tore them apart before.”
Meanwhile, another source told the news outlet why Ben Affleck has a dilemma regarding whether to be with Jennifer Lopez. The person explained, “Ben genuinely wants to be there for Jennifer.” They continued, “but being in her world means dealing with the constant spotlight, and it drains him.” The insider then expressed, “He’s told friends he longs for a simple, quiet life – something calm and private. Yet he just can’t seem to walk away from her,” added the person.
Ben Affleck has served as an executive producer in the film “Kiss of the Spider Woman,” which stars Jennifer Lopez in the lead role. The movie made its theatrical debut on October 10, 2025.
