If there’s one thing we’ve learned from The Real Housewives of Miami, it’s that Alexia Nepola doesn’t do anything halfway. Not her glam, not her dinner party shade, and definitely not her relationships. Since marrying Todd Nepola in December 2021, the couple has taken viewers on a ride filled with passion, power struggles, and more than a few awkward family dinners. But as the cameras keep rolling on the new season, fans are asking: What’s really going on between Alexia and Todd? Are they still together, are they secretly separated? Are they just staying married for the storyline? Here’s everything we know and everything we’re side-eyeing when it comes to the current state of Alexia’s love life.
When did Alexia Nepola last hook up with Todd Nepola?
Now, you know we’re not in the bedroom with these two (thankfully), but even from the outside, something feels off. The Season 7 premiere showed Alexia beside herself as she learned that Todd had left her apartment. But just five short months later, she gushed that they were still hooking up. The season started filming in September 2024, meaning as of the holidays, Alexia was still sleeping with Todd. In recent episodes of The Real Housewives of Miami, Alexia has been loud about her physical connection with Todd. She’s ignored her friend’s advice and is trying to win Todd back.
While on Watch What Happens Live, Alexis was asked when she last had sex with Todd. She noted, “That’s really intimate. No, within the last few days.” But what keeps Alexia going back to her ex? She explained that throughout the season, there were “highs and lows in my relationship and on my journey. You guys will get to see the full story.” While she’s always been open about her relationships, sometimes to a fault, there’s been a shift. The flirty energy that once defined Alexia is being overshadowed by Todd’s alleged control.
Is Alexia Nepola divorced?
Yes. Alexia is officially divorced from Todd as of March 2025. But that doesn’t mean everything’s sunshine and mojitos since it seems the duo is still hot and heavy. However, fans also noticed that Todd was absent from several major milestones in Alexia’s life this past year, including her son’s birthday, a Bravo red-carpet appearance, and even a cast trip. It’s clear that Alexia is struggling. In the June 18th episode, she broke down, telling her friends, “I’m still in love with this man.” She cried, “I’m still attracted to this f*cking *sshole. You guys have to help me. I can’t go back to this guy! He’s a f*cking monster!”
The season was filmed before the decision to finalize their divorce came. During the same dinner, Alexia gave a peek behind the curtain. She told the cast, “You know, I’m like in an emotional limbo. I hope he doesn’t proceed with the divorce. I don’t know what it is, Julia. Like honestly, like years ago, I would have been done. But it’s hard.” Alexia seemed to be giving the power to Todd. She added, “For five months, I’ve put in so much effort into saving my marriage. So I guess I’ll just have to accept [the decision] and say, ‘This is what God wanted, and God has a plan. But yeah, I’m super anxious.”
What is the status of Todd and Alexia Nepola’s relationship
So, where do things actually stand between Alexia and Todd? Right now, it’s complicated. When it comes to the status of their relationship, I think the best way to describe it is hazy. While on Watch What Happens Live, Alexia was given a truth bomb question. Andy Cohen asked what her latest status was. And the mother of two noted, “Currently, we are not together. No.” And elsewhere in the episode, Alexia revealed that her two sons had no hard feelings against Todd. “You know, Frankie loves everyone. And Frankie has always had a lot of love for Todd. And, you know, Peter is the same. They don’t butt into my business.”
Just a day before the Real Housewives of Miami Season 7 premiere, Alexia declared her constant love for Todd. And even shared that she was open to remarrying him. Publicly, they’re divorced. But emotionally and logistically, they appear to be drifting. Alexia has been leaning more on her cast-mates, while Todd has been noticeably absent from the RHOM scene. That’s a big switch from the early seasons of their marriage when he was practically a full-time cast member.
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