Steven Frend

90 Day Fiance’s Olga Koshimbetova Defends Steven Frend; Asks Fans To Back Off

90 Day Fiance star and new mom Olga Koshimbetova has had her hands full caring for a newborn, recovering from a C-section, and having to coddle a jealous Steven Frend.

Since the episode when Olga gave birth to their son, Steven repetitively expressed his displeasure at her maternal priorities in the most reprehensible ways.  One of Steven’s more notable tantrums was triggered because Olga didn’t throw a welcome parade when he returned with the baby’s medication.

It seems to me like  Steven was expecting to relive their summer passions in the backwoods of Russia with a newborn in tow.  Time to grow up and manage your expectations.

In her confessionals, Olga admitted that she had never seen Steven behave this way. Olga worried about moving to America.  She would not have a support system. Olga would have to rely completely on Steven, who is doing more harm than good at this point.  Since Steven is so upset about saying “please” and “thank you,” Olga wondered how would he act if they had real issues to deal with. Based on past precedence: in an extremely immature manner.

90 Day Fiance viewers agreed with her concerns. They were quick to denounce Steven’s behavior.  Fans flooded social media with critical comments. Some even expressing concern for Olga’s safety.

In an effort to mitigate the backlash against Steven, Olga posted a statement on her Instagram page.  She wrote, “To everyone out there, stop being so concerned of my well being and let me make my own life decision, I know what’s best for me and my family.”  I think it’s very telling that she chose to use the word family, inclusive of Steven, rather than just saying “my son.”

Olga asked fans to back off. She wrote, “I know Steven better than every single one of you. For you all to “care” about me is okay but I do not appreciate the way you all are trying to do so, stop. Your opinions will never take an [effect] in my relationship with him but I am tired of seeing this.  If you all care so much for my well being, let me be happy and live my life the way I want to.”

Last week, Steven expressed dismay at his behavior on the show and posted an explanation that doubled as an apology of sorts.  Was his post sincere? Has Steven actually changed? Hopefully, Steven has learned to control his emotions and be sympathetic to Olga and her feelings.

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Both Steven and Olga have filled their Instagram with sweet family photos.  A lot of the pictures seem to be in Russia. Does this mean that Olga didn’t receive her visa?


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