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Luann de Lesseps Says Ramona Singer Is A Narcissist

I have been watching the Real Housewives of New York from the very beginning, but I still find it so difficult to figure out where the relationships stand between the ladies. It is so hard to tell who is on good terms at any given moment. That coupled with the fact that watching a show about your clique is bound to resurface old feelings and a pretty vicious cycle is created.

Luann de Lesseps and Ramona Singer are original cast members on RHONY so I naively assume that they will always stick together, but I’m usually wrong about this. With that said, Luann has some pretty damning comments for her sometimes friend Ramona and Dorinda Medley‘s boyfriend John after watching the latest episode.

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Luann did not go to the psychic reading (obviously since it was at Carole Radiziwill‘s home and they hate each other), but she had a pretty strong reaction to it, and a lot of it was against Ramona. Luann wrote about the experience in her latest Bravo blog entry: “The thing about the coins gave me the chills! I hate to admit this, but I wasn’t surprised when Kim said Dorinda would not marry John. Ramona’s outburst was totally uncalled for.” I have to agree with her on that one. Yelling “Thank God” when the psychic said Dorinda would not marry John was definitely not something a good friend should do – especially on a reality TV show.

Luann also used her blog to take a dig at her on-again-off-again friend Bethenny Frankel when she wrote, “Bethenny tried to hide her emotions behind her cell phone and a wall of sarcasm, yet you can see her reaction when Kim says she doesn’t see her getting remarried. Even in the afterlife, Bethenny’s father is incapable of having a good relationship with her. Sad.” Wow. I think it’s a little much to diss someone’s dead dad. I don’t really see why that was a necessary comment to make, but it’s clear that Lu is finally catching on to how Bethenny has been distancing herself from her this season and she is dissing her in response.

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Luann feels bad for Dorinda being caught in the middle with her boyfriend John and her longtime friend Ramona. She even referred to them both as narcissists: “Narcissists are difficult to communicate with because they bring every discussion back to themselves. Dorinda arrived to dinner with John angry, and she left angry. She was upset from her argument with Ramona about John during the psychic reading, and she needed John to listen to her and for him to consider how his relationship with Ramona affects her. Neither Ramona nor John considers Dorinda’s feelings. I hope they can come to some sort of agreement so that Dorinda can relax.” I really do feel bad for Dorinda. She is trying her best to please everyone in her life and it has to be exhausting.

Of course, Luann had to address the whole re-gifting issue with Ramona‘s birthday necklace: “I really shouldn’t have to explain to Ramona that to re-gift means to give a gift one has received to someone else. She said that she liked the sample of the necklace, so when it was produced, I gave her one. She is so ungrateful!” I honestly see both sides in this situation. I get that Luann was just getting Ramona the necklace that she promised to give her, but maybe she should have given it to her at another time?

And while Luann is already laying into Sonja, she has to talk about Ramona‘s attempt to get Luann to stop being a “bad influence” on Sonja: “As for her opinion on my staying with Sonja while I apartment hunting, it’s nobody’s business but Sonja’s and mine. How much we party and with whom we socialize is also not Ramona’s business.” I don’t think anyone can influence Sonja in any way shape or form. The woman does whatever she wants however she wants – no peer pressure necessary.

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