Heather Thomson Is “Disappointed” In Ramona Singer For Being Self-Absorbed And Playing The Victim


Ramona Singer's behavior is seriously awry this season of Real Housewives of New York – despite her protestations that she is the "voice of reason". Does she mean the voice of too much pinot?

After Ramona bailed on the Berkshires amid a pack of fibs and phony panic attacks, Heather Thomson is calling Ramona out! Heather titles her Bravo blog, "I'm Disappointed In Ramona" and goes through the reasons why Ramona's actions were out-of-line. 

"So, thankfully Kristen [Taekman] didn't need stitches — just an ice pack and some TLC, which she is not getting from Ramona. Ramona agreed she was out-of-line and would apologize, but ohhh man it didn't go over as well as one would have liked. But that was probably because Ramona took the opportunity to make the story about herself and play the victim again," Heather writes.


"In Ramona's universe, the sun and the moon circle her. In fact, she is the sun, the moon, and the universe. She needs to stop thinking of herself and think of others. She threw a glass at Kristen and no matter what reason she is using to justify it, her actions require an apology — and a nice, sincere one at that. Ramona boasts that she is a sophisticated, 'classy' lady; this is an opportunity to show it, but she passes it up." Amen – or as Heather would say "Holla!" 

The next day Ramona's bad behavior continued – including when she pulled off a lie by taking advantage of her castmate's empathy! "While everyone is enjoying our lazy, yummie breakfast, Ramona is pacing around the dining room table slapping her shoes together, dropping dirt all over everyone's heads, and trying to hurry us up to go on the trail walk through the woods (which I planned for that morning)," Heather recalls.

"I was thinking to myself, 'What is the sudden sense of urgency from the one person who was the least outdoorsy?'" Heather continues. "Well off we go into the woods and it wasn't 20 minutes into the walk that Ramona comes unraveled and distraught with memories of her childhood spent playing in a wooded area not unlike my property. And I bit her story, hook, line and sinker. . ." 

Heather is extremely upset by Ramona's self-absorbed manipulations and definitely agrees with LuAnn de Lesseps that Ramona needs an intervention

"When she [Ramona] told me in the woods she was just too emotionally wrought over her childhood to stay, I was so sincere in my belief that I even stuck up for her leaving! I was actually proud of her for trying to overcome it, before realizing it was all an act," Heather reveals. "What I fool I was! Ramona had bigger plans in the Hamptons that didn't include us — and this fake panic attack was all part of it!"

"I wouldn't have even cared if Ramona wanted to go and told me. I would have welcomed a plan for her to stay for one night and then head out. But she chose to lie and play me and the others," Heather says. "She didn't even tell her supposed BFF. I mean look at Sonja! She's actually more upset then Ramona about Ramona's childhood."

Heather continues, "I should have been defending Kristen more than worrying about Ramona, who is once again only worried about one person — herself."

As for Ramona's performance, in retrospect Heather admits it was suspect allll along! "Let us just agree on this — And the OSCAR AWARD for best dramatic performance does NOT go to Singer! She needs to remember she is a reality show star not an actress. Know your role Ramona. I say this mostly with jest, because quite frankly I don't really care. But as I watch the show and see her saying that she is 'free' when she is getting on the plane to take off, I am disappointed in her behavior."

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