Recapping last week’s emotional Real Housewives Of New York episode, Sonja defends her right to have a good time (even if it results in a lost tooth), discounts rumors that she’s stuck in the past, and lectures Ramona Singer on lightening up!
Likening Carole Radziwill and Dorinda Medley‘s widowhood to her own painful divorce, Sonja sympathizes with their reactions to the loss of a poignant love. “Their trip to London is a wonderful example of girlfriends helping each other through a difficult experience. That’s what friends are for! If supporting a friend just so happens to take you to London, all the better!”
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“It is very brave of Carole and Dorinda to face their pasts head on. That is something that takes courage.I have never been a widow, but I understand the pain involved with losing a husband and best friend. Divorce can hit you like a death, especially a complicated one like mine,” explains Sonja. “The key to moving on is to face your demons and then onwards and upwards as my insignia ring on my pinky says. I wear it every day to remind me. I know the girls in this group like to say that I am stuck in the past, but I am living very much in the present. I have always prided myself on my ability to live in the moment. I think the girls are stuck on my past–and only the one after my ex. What about the past before my ex? They act as if I wasn’t on the planet before my ex.”
Speaking of helping a friend, Sonja is more than happy to be Ramona’s own personal Girlfriends Guide To Divorce, but she thinks Ramona’s pickiness is masking fear. “I have been single for some time now, so this is more my expertise than Ramona’s. She is very green and will need a lot of coaching, but she will be just fine!” praises Sonja.
“I cringe when I hear Ramona listing all of the qualifications she has to have in a future partner. It’s good to have qualities in mind that you appreciate and to know yourself, but sometimes love comes in surprising packages,” reminds Sonja. “Love only comes when you are open to receiving it, and Ramona may be too freshly wounded to find a partner right now.”
Sonja also puts Ramona on blast about her recollection of what happened with Mystery Naked in Turks and Caicos. “I don’t know that I’m completely buying Ramona’s story that she was just a wing woman for Luann. She can’t put all of her crazy behavior on other people. Eventually she just has to own it.”
“I went straight to bed when we returned to the villa, but I saw her [Ramona] very happily ensconced on the banquet outside with the other man,” reveals Sonja in her blog. “They were bookends and definitely acting separately and focused on their respective guys! Kudos to Luann for tripping on down to the beach. A woman after my heart and soul.”
However Sonja is disappointed Ramona was so quick to bail on Bethenny Frankel‘s hookup attempt! “Ramona missed out by leaving the Boy meets SkinnyGirl party! She’s the one who’s single. Why wasn’t she ready to mingle?” wonders Sonja. “Luann and I found plenty of gorgeous men there, so I don’t know where Ramona was looking. You cannot take every moment so seriously. You know what Mother says…when you least expect it…”
As for Bethenny’s party, Sonja was more than happy to help a friend when it comes to having a blast! “Overall the Boy Meets Skinnygirl party was great, and I’m saying that with my Sonja in the City event producer hat on! No one can say that I’m not a good time. I even lost a tooth during this party having a great time and being in the moment,” gushes Sonja. “Let the women say what they will, but I will always be the straw that stirs the drink.”
Sonja is indignant about any accusations that she was wasted and acting like a floozy, she was simply president of the Fun Club! “This party is another example of me drinking responsibly. I was not drunk when I ripped the guys cufflink off. I was just having a good time, being crazy, and being Sonja! The women just don’t understand who I am and that I am a fun person–not someone with a problem.”
Well tonight Sonja is out in full-force for the fashion show of her Sonja Morgan Collection, produced by Sonja in the City events. Of course drama erupts between Bethenny and Ramona as the models take the runway and backstage Sonja is erupting on Team Sonja over disorganization and lack of coordination.
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