Bethenny Frankel is explaining why she’s turned into a chronic bolter this season on The Real Housewives of New York. The reality star took to her blog to give some insight to where her head was at during the insanity of the past few episodes.  And she also touches on that whole “dating a married man” thing.

Bethenny starts, “That argument was insane. I meant it all. I am not a slut shamer. I am a hypocrite and dishonesty shamer.  Many of you noticed that Luann spelled my name incorrectly on her phone. Perhaps I would have been softer on her or forgiven her if she knew how to spell my name after eight years.” Eric(k)a Jayne feels your pain, Bethenny.

She admits in her blog that she fled Dorinda’s in haste and should’ve thanked her. “To say that I couldn’t get out of that house fast enough would be a massive understatement. In a perfect world, I’d want to thank Dorinda for her graciousness but having to see Luann again was the last thing I wanted to do. Carole was right that we had to say goodbye, especially given my exodus at Jules’ house. So that was definitely bitchy.”

And again, bolting because she didn’t want to deal with more confrontations with Lu or Sonja. “Then we’re at Ramona’s party. I really had had my fill. I didn’t want to revisit the situation with Luann. I was genuinely satisfied with her apology, and I believe I made it clear that I wasn’t happy with my delivery. I own my sh–.”

“As far as Sonja, this stupidity caused me unnecessary aggravation. While I didn’t have major animosity for her, I definitely didn’t need any more altercations. I was chock full. I guess I’m always running out of places on this show. Life is too short to hang out where you don’t want to be and to argue with who you don’t want to see. Sorry. My daughter, my best friends and my business are my priorities. Zero F—s on the rest of it.”

“Hopefully my tone settles a little bit. I was under a lot of stress, dealing with a major health issue, and Luann may be right that I was sexually deprived and wound up. Who knows. It was so long ago.”

“I have a soft spot for Luann and most of the Housewives. We have been through work, love and war together, and honestly, none of it matters. We’re healthy, fortunate, beautiful women. I say it in the moment and not behind people’s backs. I left it all on the court, as always.”

She ends with, “This season is our best ever. People are obsessed, and that is because it is real and the truth. The truth does sometimes hurt.”

On Bethenny’s dating life – she Tweeted last night to explain that her new guy – seen here house shopping  – is “married” just like she is still “married” – but legally separated and going through his own divorce.



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