This season of Real Housewives of New Jersey is Siggy Flickers‘s first season and the poor woman is already exhausted and over the drama of it all. It’s a good thing she didn’t join a few seasons ago when shit was REALLY dark and twisty. She took to her blog this week to explain her frustration and disappointment and to explain her flood of tears in Vermont.
Siggy starts off, “I’m officially done trying to fix what doesn’t want to be fixed. I joined RHONJ with the best intentions; I wanted to bring peace, not to be thrown into the middle of a war zone that doesn’t have an ending in sight. With each episode that passes, I’m slowly realizing that this entire scenario just may not be “fixable.”” She continues, “This “showdown in Stowe” has been years in the making. There’s been a lot of backstabbing, a lot of hurt, and a lot of ugly words thrown around. Mix that with a group of people who have a difficult time letting go of the past and moving forward and you have a recipe for disaster.”
“In order for a relationship to work — whether it’s a romantic relationship, friendship, whatever -– all parties involved must WANT to make it work.” Siggy adds, “Both parties here, no matter what they’ve said in the past, are not cooperating, which leads me to believe that they really don’t want to reconcile and move on.”
This whole mess with Teresa, Melissa, Jacqueline and Robyn has her ready to just throw in the towel. “Never before in my life have I ever wished I wasn’t a relationship expert. I LOVE WHAT I DO! During this whole toxic trip, I wanted nothing more than to crawl out of my body and be someone else.”
On her tearful scenes during the trip and not handling drama with grown women very well, Siggy blogs – “I think one of the reasons I’ve been so successful in my career helping others is that I’m an extremely empathetic person, hence, all the tears; I’m very in tune with other people’s feelings. During this trip, I felt like I got my ass kicked –- all of the drama sucked the life right out of me. I didn’t deal well with drama when I was 16, and I sure as hell don’t have any desire to deal with it now that I have teenagers myself. Grown women threatening each other? No thank you.”
TELL US – DO YOU THINK SIGGY WILL RETURN NEXT SEASON? IS SHE OVERREACTING TO DRAMA THAT ISN’T HERS?
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