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90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Last night’s episode of 90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days was full of DRAMA! There were so many confrontations that my head is spinning just from all the second-hand anger. I had to have a cocktail just to ease my nerves after all the yelling. The circus was definitely in town and these couples were the performers. I can’t complain, this reality gem was just what I needed to distract my mind from the current circumstances around the world.

Avery Warner finally meets Ash Naeck ’s skeptical brother. Ed Brown makes a shocking request of Rose. Geoffrey Paschel ’s biggest fear about Varya Malina’ comes true. Lisa Hamme  reaches a boiling point in Nigeria. Yolanda Leak hopes she isn’t making a mistake. Let’s get straight into the 90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days recap!

Avery, 32 (Seattle) & Ash, 38 (Australia)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Obviously, Avery’s resolve didn’t last long. Instead of sleeping in separate rooms, she wakes up naked with Ash. Later that morning, she inquires about why Ash’s brother didn’t want her to stay at their house. He shrugs off her concerns as his brother only wanting to be comfortable in his own home, since he doesn’t know her yet. Personally, I wouldn’t want his internet love to stay at my house either, her first visit.


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Avery finally meets Ash’s judgmental brother. It is evident that he doesn’t approve of Avery and her influence on his brother. He was shocked when Ash ordered a cocktail when he doesn’t normally drink. He wastes no time inquiring about their relationship and how they intend to make a long-distance relationship work. Ash’s brother tells them there is a series of issues with their relationship and they may need to drink more alcohol to deal with it. LMAO!

Ed, 54 (San Diego) & Rosemarie, 23 (Philippines)

 90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Feeling bad about his behavior at the market, Ed treats Rose to a manicure and pedicure.  While there, he discovers she may have lied about having met other men on social media. He becomes instantly frustrated when Rose continues to dodge questions about her past. He is worried that she is only using him for a way to America. Sounds about right to me!

Ed takes Rose to dinner where he drops a bomb on her. He isn’t comfortable with her mysterious past so he wants her to agree to take an STD test. Of course, this doesn’t go over well and Rose is extremely offended. She asks Ed to take a test with her, but he declines because he doesn’t feel comfortable taking the test outside of the United States.


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After a heated exchange, Ed walks away and Rose is left crying at the table. I don’t blame Ed since Rose is clearly hiding something.  But it would only be fair to take a test at the same time.  Especially if Ed anticipates them having sex during the trip, if her test comes back negative.

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Rose meets Ed outside the restaurant and releases a tirade of broken English on him. She is furious he would infer that she is a “nasty woman.” He tries to explain that he isn’t comfortable not knowing anything about her child’s father or any other men. Rose finally shares some details of her life, but she is so upset she asks Ed to get her own hotel room.  Well, that went well.  I don’t know if it’s their cultural differences or the way Ed explained things, but I don’t think an STD test is unreasonable.

Lisa, 52 (York, Pa.) & Usman “SojaBoy,” 30 (Nigeria)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Lisa is excited to finally see Usman perform the song he supposedly wrote for her at his premiere party. When Usman surprises her with a visit to the studio where he created the song, things get awkward when she meets the video director. Apparently, Lisa is still angry that a model that looks nothing like her was used in the video. The director is annoyed that she forced Usman to change so many elements of his original vision. He is so frustrated he doesn’t even want the credit for the video anymore. I can’t wait to see this new music video directed by Lisa’s insecurity.


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90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Usman introduces Lisa to his friend, Abba, who also in the music industry. Abba is shocked when he finds out that Usman was forced to remove all the scenes that featured the model in his video. His friend flat out asks Lisa if she is trying to destroy his music career. She is infuriated by the question and accuses her ‘Baby Love’ of allowing his friend to disrespect her. Whew, chile. Usman is really making an effort, but she HAS to be weighing on his patience. He must really want this visa if he’s willing to deal with this woman.


Stephanie, 29 (New York) & Erika, 24 (Australia)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

After 3 separate flights and 30 hours, Stephanie Matto has finally arrived in Australia. The pair shares an emotional hello at the airport. Although both women are genuinely excited, Stephanie is already nervous about whether she will measure up sexually for Erika Owens.


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After risking her health to get to Australia, sex should be the least of her concerns. Girl, have a cocktail and loosen up!

David, 60 (Nevada) & Lana, 27 (Ukraine)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Sigh! Poor David is still under the impression that he will finally meet his Ukrainian love. Before his trip, he visits a jewelry store to get a fake an engagement ring. The way the jeweler looked at him when he asked for cubic zirconia because it was “shiny” was priceless. Sometimes I can’t believe people like this exist, but then I remember they serve a purse, my entertainment is shows like this.


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David has arrived in the Ukraine, but instead of meeting his ‘girlfriend’ Lana, his friend Anya meets him at the airport. The two met 12 years ago on a dating website and when there was no romantic connection, they remained friends. Anya is just as suspicious as the rest of us about Lana’s existence intentions. Umm… did anyone else notice the rolls of toilet tissue in David’s suitcase when he was unpacking at the hotel?

Yolanda, 51 (Las Vegas, NV) & Williams, 40 (England)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Yolanda finally gets in contact with Williams after his Instagram mysteriously disappeared. It’s so sad that this woman is so excited for a man just to text her.  She still plans to travel to England, despite all of the sketchy details of their relationship. While shopping with one of her skeptical friends, she says she is willing to give Williams the benefit of the doubt. It’s obvious Yolanda is yearning for any type of male attention after the death of her husband.

Geoffrey, 41 (Knoxville, Tenn.) & Varya, 30 (Russia)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: Our Lips Are Sealed

Varya takes Geoffrey to a beautiful outdoor setting after an uncomfortable night in her unfinished home. He immediately confronts her about if she is using him as an opportunity to come to the U.S. She asks him to trust her intentions are real when confronted with his suspicions. Geoffrey agrees to trust her and move forward. I’m not sure why she told him he was her opportunity to leave Russia the night before.


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Varya introduces Geoffrey to several of her friends over lunch. They ask several questions about his intentions with Varya. Geoffrey becomes frustrated when he is asked if he has any secrets. Of course, he is sweating bullets because he hasn’t revealed his criminal past yet. One friend even warns him that Varya was with another American man before him.  This only seems to validate his worst fear and begins yelling at Varya in the restaurant. It’s extremely hypocritical that he wants full disclosure from her, but hasn’t told her about his stint in prison.


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