There’s no doubt about the hell Khloe Kardashian has been through over the past few years – Lamar cheating, Lamar’s drug issues and more. The Keeping Up with the Kardashians star even spent weeks at Lamar’s hospital bedside while he fought for his life after a drug overdose at a Nevada brothel.
Lamar’s recovery was nothing short of miraculous and he was even seen attending Easter Sunday service with Khloe and the family. But it seems since the news spilled that Lamar is drinking again (and was spotted at a bar in L.A. hours before church), Khloe is realizing that she just can’t force him to change and want to be rescued. She took to Instagram this weekend to share her thoughts on letting go of those who need to find their way on their own. Khloe shared with her followers, “Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back. Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can’t want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time.”
She continued, “I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. “People say time heals all wounds… I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and what you survived.” Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work. “
“We have to stop trying to repaint people’s colors. We have to learn to believe the love we AREN’T given. You can’t love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it’s for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have to understand… some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn… It took me so many years to understand that.”
Khloe finished her lengthy message with, “Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always has a plan even if we can’t understand it (or don’t want to understand it) Even in the darkest of places… Our Lord sees His vision. We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you. “A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces.”
I still think some of their life should be private and the timing – coming right on the heels of her show being canceled – almost seems suspect. But, that said, I do feel empathy for Khloe and hope that letting go will prove to be the best thing for her and for Lamar. Hopefully he wakes up and sees that he’s been given a second chance at living a good life – and he shouldn’t waste this chance. He has kids to think about, too!
TELL US – DO YOU THINK LAMAR WILL STRAIGHTEN UP AND FLY RIGHT? WILL KHLOE MOVE ON OR WILL THEY RECONCILE?
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