90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Last night’s episode of 90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days was full of tears, surprise visits and some shocking twists and turns. Who would have ever guessed how some of these relationships would progress or fall apart so quickly? I must admit, I have been shocked on more than one occasion this season.

Geoffrey Paschel  settles back home. Lisa Hamme confronts Usman Umar. Ed Brown leaves the Philippines. Avery Warner and Ash Naeck spend time with his son. Darcey Silva rethinks her priorities. Stephanie Matto and Erika Owens say goodbye. Yolanda wants answers from Williams. David continues his quest for Lana. Let’s get straight into the 90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days recap!

Geoffrey, 41 (Knoxville, Tenn.) & Varya, 30 (Russia)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Upon returning home, Geoffrey is still bitter that Varya Malina dared to turn down his marriage proposal. Despite numerous attempts to placate him, all of Varya’s messages are ignored. When Geoffrey’s sons learn of the break up, they don’t seem surprised that things didn’t work out in Russia.

Geoffrey has only been home 3 weeks and he is already dating again. Do you remember his friend, Mary we met earlier in the season? Well she finally got her chance to pursue something romantic with her friend, now that Varya has been out of the picture. I wouldn’t be running after him, especially when he proposed to someone else, less than a month ago.


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In a shocking twist, Varya comes to Tennessee to get her man back. Obviously, she is unaware that Geoffrey has already found a rebound with his friend, Mary. When Varya arrives, she is met with a shocked Geoffrey and an angry distraction. Maybe she should have called, before she just arrived with suitcases. Nevertheless, I can’t wait to see how this messy situation works out!

Darcey, 45(Connecticut) & Tom, 39 (England)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

In an effort to squeeze another five minutes of fame, Tom Brooks is still in New York. He meets with a friend to play victim about what happened with Darcey. He then casually adds that he is on his way to Canada to meet another woman. At this point, someone please get this jerk off of my screen. I can’t deal with the hypocrisy oozing from his pores.


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Finally, Tom leaves New York to pursue his knock off Darcey. Meanwhile, Darcey is moving forward with her daughters as her focus rather than a man. I’m not sure how long that’s going to last, but at least she is trying.


Lisa, 52 (York, Pa.) & Usman “SojaBoy,” 30 (Nigeria)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Lisa is completely frazzled while trying to obtain her divorce decree before her wedding in a few days in Nigeria. Lucky for her, she is able to convince a court clerk to email her the paperwork. Lisa and Usman share a kiss to celebrate removing another obstacle from their path to marriage. My, my, my how quickly things change.

In the blink of an eye, baby girl Lisa morphs into the green eyed monster when she finds inappropriate messages from another woman. Usman claims the mystery woman is only a friend, despite them both saying ‘I love you’ in their communications. At dinner, Lisa completely flips out and gives Usman a piece of her mind.


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90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Usman manages to chase down an angry Lisa to convince her he isn’t cheating. Whatever, Usman! I literally just laughed out loud. I have no doubt that Usman is just using Lisa, until he gets his golden visa.  If he can deal with her tyrannical ways for this long, I would say he has earned it.

Avery, 32 (Seattle) & Ash, 38 (Australia)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Avery confronts Ash about his ex-wife Sian. After meeting with her, Avery discovered Sian isn’t okay with her son coming to America and that they just divorced a year ago. Surprisingly, Ash admits that he played down the situation because he was worried Avery would misunderstand the situation. Avery actually doesn’t use this opportunity to berate Ash. This is the first time I have seen her accept his excuses so easily.


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In a rare scene, Ash and Avery have a day without arguing. Before returning to Melbourne, they both spend the day with Ash’s son, Taj. Despite the day, Avery is left with even more questions about the future of their relationship.


Yolanda, 51 (Las Vegas, NV) & Williams, 40 (England)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Is anyone else sick of Yolanda whining over Williams the catfish? This woman refuses to let this man go, despite the mounting evidence of his deception.  She continues to text message him in hopes of finding out the truth. It seems to me no matter what, Yolanda yearns to be in a relationship no matter who it’s with.


Ed, 54 (San Diego) & Rosemarie, 23 (Philippines)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

After an explosive fight, Ed discovers that Rose left the resort without him.  I guess he didn’t believe her when she said she was done with him. Ed is completely devastated that he has been left high and dry. I would be too, if I had a 20+ year drought. Ed, maybe next time don’t look for a mail order bride to customize like a doll, instead of a person.


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Stephanie, 29 (New York) & Erika, 24 (Australia)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

Stephanie is having regrets about breaking up with Erika after discovering her dating past. They decide to meet to talk before Stephanie returns to the U.S. Erika is hurt that she has sacrificed so much to be with Stephanie, but doesn’t feel it was reciprocated. Things don’t go as planned; Stephanie leaves the café in the most awkward goodbye of the season. I have never seen two people argue and break up so many times, in such a short period of time.


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Erika talks to her mother about her relationship problems with Stephanie. At this point, Erika believes that Stephanie was only playing with her heart. Honestly, I think Stephanie is looking for any excuse to avoid telling her mother about her sexuality. It’s just sad, that Erika endured all of that crazy, without getting anything in return.


David, 60 (Nevada) & Lana, 27 (Ukraine)

90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days Recap: The Pleasure Principle

I still can’t believe that Lana is real! I don’t care what anyone says, the producers had to convince this woman to meet David. Maybe she realized he would just keep stalking her, if she refused. One thing is for sure, this woman is no amateur! She clearly only wants the chance to come to America for a better life.


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I feel awkward just watching David and Lana’s cringy first meeting. In a post interview, Lana claims she likes everything about him, except his leather coat. At least Lana is somewhat honest! Between the leather coat and the shoes, David looks like a serial killer. I’m sure the only thing Lana sees when she looks at David’s face is a dollar sign.


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