Tamra Judge Accuses Heather Dubrow Of Being The Pot Stirrer; Says A Lot Of Meghan Edmonds Step Children Comments Were Edited Out!

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Tamra Judge has found Jesus and with that comes a newfound relationship with the truth. Meaning Tamra says she’s telling it now. After being called a pot stirrer on last week’s episode of Real Housewives Of Orange County, Tamra is announcing who she thinks the real pot stirrer is: Heather Dubrow, will you please stand up in your Chanel! 

Tamra also gives more insight on Meghan Edmonds stepmother boundaries and just why Meghan’s comments were so upsetting. 

After last season Tamra insists she has learned from her mistakes and will no longer be the victim of she-said/she-said drama. Therefore after her drunken night out with Vicki and Shannon, Tamra decided to let Heather know that her friendship with Meghan (in addition to her friendship with Jimmy’s second ex, Allison) had been a topic of conversation. Little did Tamra know that would bite her in there CUT Fitness-toned ass too! 


“Honestly, after what happened in Bali last year I decided that I would be very open about any conversation we have about another person while they are not there. Last year’s game of telephone was so twisted and such BS! I’m not playing their game again!” writes Tamra in her Bravo blog

Heather called me the next morning and asked me ‘Did you guys talk about me’, I said YES we did,” insists Tamra. “Jimmy’s ex was brought up while talking about Meghan and Shannon thought you broke the ‘girl code’. THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED. So why was I so pissed when Heather tells the story TOTALLY DIFFERENT?”

“I never said anything about being negative or that Shannon was being mean or whatever she said I said. I knew 100% I was going to bring it up at dinner and put it on the table,” seethes Tamra. “New rule…if you say it behind their back you should be able to tell them to their face. That was exactly what I was doing.”

“If you have a problem with the TRUTH that is NOT my problem and it doesn’t qualify me as being a pot stirrer. If Heather would have said, ‘Hey Shannon I hear you think I’m breaking girl code by being friends with Meghan,’ I would have no reason to get upset,” claims Tamra. “The truth is the truth is the truth!” Well yes and no – especially where a Real Housewife is concerned. 

Tamra continues, “This is perfect example of what happened last year. Shannon and Lizzie asked me if I liked Brooks and I said ‘I think there is someone better out there for Vicki.’ Two months later I am being accused of going around talking sh** about Brooks. I’M NOT PLAYING THIS GAME ANYMORE WITH THESE GIRLS!” Then quit starting these games, doofus! 

Moving on to other Meghan issues, Tamra is still unnerved by Meghan’s predatory step mothering. Using double-negatives, Tamra expresses that everyone feels Meghan has a right to love her stepchildren, but Meghan does not have a right to wish their mother was out of the picture so she could take over. Yes – totes creeptastic.  

“The conversation that we were having with Meghan was not that she CANNOT love her step children,” explains Tamra. “Meghan had some strong opinions about wanting to be the mother of Jimmy’s kids with his second wife. These kids are very young and just getting used to their mommy and daddy not being together. They need time to transition into their new situation. Being a step parent is a real balancing act and knowing your boundaries is important.” 

“There was a lot of the conversation that you did not hear,” continues Tamra. “I do think Meghan is a very loving stepmom; I was not trying to say she wasn’t. In fact I told her that while we were talking. As a divorced mother you are lucky if your ex finds someone that loves your kids and treats them well…TRUST ME.” 

“There are a lot of rules to being a good step parent and one of them is…YOU’RE NOT their mother so don’t act like it, acting like it is only going to cause resentment and confusion on both ends,” advises Tamra. “I felt that she was crossing the line with some of her comments and suggested that if she had such strong feelings that she should have her own children with Jimmy.” 

All of the other women have mentioned that there were several aspects of their conversation with Meghan that were edited out – I wonder why. Because it certainly seems that the elements that were excluded would clear up a lot of information, and instead of it looking as if Tamra (and in particular Vicki) were attacking Meghan for loving her stepchildren or inserting their opinions unnecessarily, it would demonstrate that Meghan’s attitude is a lot presumptuous. Meghan also pointblank stated she doesn’t speak to Jim’s second ex-wife and called her a “very unhappy woman” alluding to an extremely fractured relationship. I do wonder – BIG TIME – just what exactly was left-out and why… seems like once again the fake drama was not nearly as riveting as the drama that got away. 

Well tonight the ladies are back in Orange County and the subject of drama is Brooks. Brooks decides to stop chemo, much to the dismay of Vicki. Meanwhile Tamra’s psychic makes a shocking claim about Brooks’ illness that leaves the ladies uncertain of what to believe and how to proceed.

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