Every new detail that emerges about Drew Sidora’s divorce from Ralph Pittman is messier than the last. Earlier this month, a judge ordered The Real Housewives of Atlanta star to move out of their marital home. She has until May 31, and the court awarded Ralph sole custody of their two kids.
Drew has argued that she can’t afford to move out by that date. She said she could face homelessness, and to prove her point, she submitted text messages to the court showing recent conversations with Ralph. In the texts, she claimed he had been getting a major cut of her RHOA salary.
The Real Housewives of Atlanta star is going through a messy divorce
TMZ obtained a series of alleged texts between Ralph and Drew, which appear to show the exes’ recent conversations about finances. In one text from April 13, 2026, Drew wrote to her ex, “I most definitely cannot afford 9K of household expenses at this time.”
She asked, “Are you going to pay for half of the groceries as well as half of the kids’ expenses for the month?”
Ralph replied, “Good morning. I … believe this is very generous as you haven’t contributed anything towards the home for a number of years.”
Ralph warned her that if she didn’t pay, she’d be in contempt of a court order. That’s when Drew started dropping tea about the RHOA paychecks.
Drew wrote, “Ralph, how can you say I haven’t given you money toward the house in years? I’ve given you 50% of my money for Real Housewives and all along you were getting paid directly from Bravo as well!”
She added, “I gave you 50% of my endorsement deals … and my movies. Let’s talk about how you took $300,000 out of my money I received personally on my personal injury settlement.”
Elsewhere in the alleged texts, Drew asked Ralph about the status of their mortgage. She claimed they were $25,000 behind in payments. Ralph denied that and also brushed off her claims about facing homelessness.
On April 14, the day after the news dropped about Ralph’s primary custody win, Drew texted him again, accusing him of trying to destroy her reputation.
Drew wrote, “You have done the ultimate betrayal and tried to destroy me as their mom, defame my character, career, brand and me as a human being time and time again, so please just focus on what’s best for the kids moving forward.”
Ralph replied, “You can no longer hide and don’t want people to see you for who u really are. All the lies you told are being cleared without me doing anything. You’re a terrible person, and I pray you work on your spirit.”
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