Vicki Gunvalson Says Meghan Edmonds Is Ignorant, Immature, and Naive

Vicki argues with Jim and Meghan on RHOC

Vicki Gunvalson has had enough of Meghan King Emdonds. (Um, haven’t we all?!?) In her Real Housewives of Orange County blog, Vicki said Meghan is overstepping her boundaries. “And I’ve had it,” she added. “Enough is enough.”

About Heather Dubrow‘s luncheon, Vicki shared, “I’m sad and sorry that I lost my temper, yelled at Meghan and left early. I don’t like yelling, I don’t like being sad, and I don’t like conflict. I took time out of my day to go see Heather’s home in hopes to have a nice ladies day. Instead, I left crying and sad which is never what you want to do. When Meghan called me ‘old’ at the lunch table, I was shocked. I am 53 years old. I believe with age comes wisdom, knowledge, and a lot of life lessons.”


Vicki added that she’d be horrified if any of her children’s friends talked to her how Meghan does, “There is zero respect with her and I have to believe there is much more behind her disrespectful behavior than we know about.”

“I am ‘normally’ a calm happy person, however this constant needling me about Brooks‘ cancer and his choice of treatment is really wearing on me,” added Vicki. “This is such a new territory for me, to constantly have to talk about and defend someone that I love who has cancer is unbelievable. I grew up in the Midwest. Where I come from if a family member or someone close is diagnosed with cancer the community comes together, starts prayer chains, and delivers CASSEROLES.”

Silly Vicki, trophy wives don’t make casseroles. Also, narcissists aren’t capable of compassion. 

Vicki explained her dress choice for Tamra Judge‘s sex party – she left lunch before Tamra announced the theme – and called out Meghan‘s hypocrisy.

Tamra called me afterwards to tell me to wear something lacy and sexy, which I did,” said Vicki. “She did not tell me that the ladies were buying wigs and dressing like they did. I had no idea it was a theme party, so hearing Meghan in her interview call me a ‘bitch’ and flip me off because I didn’t wear hooker clothes was shocking. I would never wear those type of clothes. Heather was wearing a red skirt and a black top, which was very nice, very conservative, and very age appropriate. Why didn’t she say the same thing about her outfit? Again, Meghan is just being mean towards me and quite frankly I am tired of it.”

Vicki has come to the conclusion that Brooks was targeted by her co-stars to create drama/controversy for the otherwise blah season of Real Housewives of Orange County. She’s right, of course – Tamra found Jesus? Eye. Roll. Heather’s mansion? Yawn. Hashtag cool Step Mom? Just. No. But she’s missed the big picture… TAMRA started it. (I mean, Meghan‘s still awful, but…)

According to Vicki, what we don’t see…

“…is how Brooks has struggled with the decision to stop ‘traditional’ medicine and go a more alternative route. It was a big decision, but one that I supported.”

“…are the struggles Brooks has gone through by making the decision to reveal this season that he even has cancer. He did NOT want to, and I told him it was a way for us to show how we can inspire others who have cancer and how couples can ban together during this time. I had no idea it was going to be the focus this season.”

“…is the new treatment he is doing is actually working. His blood levels are improving and he is feeling better.”

“…are the numerous doctor visits and scans that Brooks has done, it has become a big part of his life to beat this cancer and it’s working.”

“…are the night sweats, the high fevers, and the vomiting after his chemo treatments.”

“…is how sick he was earlier this year from doing chemo.”

“…is Brooks asking me NOT to talk about his illness to the ladies. It’s none of their business – like it is none of my business on any of their healthcare choices.”

Vicki continued, “It is ignorant, immature, and naïve of Meghan to think chemo is the only option to treat cancer.”

“What I’m trying to understand is why does this continue to be a topic of conversation with Meghan especially? Does she not have enough going on in her own life that she can focus on? If she is so concerned about cancer treatments, maybe Meghan should go back to school and be an oncologist if she is so passionate about cancer treatments,” snarked Vicki. “That would be a better use of her time I think, don’t you?”

Vicki thanked Shannon Beador and Lizzie Rovsek for their support.

“Thank you Lizzie for trying to make sense of this chaos with Meghan,” said Vicki. “You saw Meghan for who she really is at the luncheon. You’re right, she doesn’t care about Brooks or I – so when you don’t care about someone then stop talking about them. That has been my request every time she brings it up, and out of respect for me I’ve asked her to stop.”

Plugging clubDetox, Vicki shared, “Brooks juices one day a week for an entire day, which fuels his body with 25 lbs. of organic vegetables in one day. He believes that has a lot to attribute to how he is feeling as well. We are not saying juicing cures cancer, however, studies have shown that it is a benefit to the overall health of the body to do so.

Vicki continued, “I have actually been doing it at least one day a week and have never felt better. To learn more about juicing and one and the benefits of it for your health, go to for recipes and more information about healing your body from the inside out.”


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