When this season of Real Housewives of New York started it seemed like the major feud was going to be between Dorinda Medley and Sonja Morgan. That seems to have blown over and, in all honesty, Sonja vs. Dorinda was far from an even match. There’s no way Sonja would have survived a whole season going up against Dorinda. Now it’s clear that the biggest tension of the season is between OG cast members Ramona Singer and Bethenny Frankel.

Ramona questioned Bethenny on her “soft porn” past and brought up Bethenny’s six-year-old daughter. She did so in a group setting on camera and just came across as a blatant instigator. Now, she’s backpedaling and trying to frame the conversation as her expressing concern, but Bethenny appears to be so done with Ramona.


Don’t get me wrong, Ramona is a fierce opponent, but I still think she is in over her head coming for Bethenny. Anyone would be out of their league in a feud with Bethenny. Ramona discussed her issues with Bethenny in her Bravo blog.

Ramona warned, “Truthfully the riff that is happening with Bethenny and I does continue and gets worse before it gets better.” I hate saying it, but at least we (hopefully) have something exciting to look forward to this season. It’s been pretty blah so far.

She continued, “When I look back and think about it all, it’s almost like we are in high school and she is holding the grudge against me for ‘doing the wrong thing’. I can go over and over what I should have said, how I should have said it, but I won’t. The frustration of the entire situation makes me react to her in ways that I couldn’t control. She really actually knows how to push my buttons.” How did Bethenny “push buttons” when Ramona was the one who brought up the topless sex scene and mentioned her kid during an otherwise harmonious cast dinner?

Ramona tried to convince us that she’s actually super mature when she wrote, “I know that I do not hold grudges. We all make mistakes, each and every one of us. I chose to share how I feel and if I am disappointed or hurt by someone I tell them. I take a few days to cool off and then I realize that these things happen. I move forward.” Well of course you have to move forward with a relationship when you’re contractually obligated to film a TV show together.

Ramona maintained, “My intention was never to hurt or embarrass Bethenny. I know my delivery was horrid. I have always been there for Bethenny and always will.” These two have been through a lot over the years so I wouldn’t be surprised if they ended being friends friendly again. Still, Ramona definitely crossed a line and she has a long way to go before she could even dream of being back in Bethenny’s good graces. It’s going to take a lot of groveling. Bethenny doesn’t bend easily.

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