The Real Housewives of Orange County star Vicki Gunvalson may be busy launching loads of random products for her fans to consume, but she also manages to blog her personal analyzations of co-star and former bestie Tamra Judge in her spare time.
She starts off her latest blog by pondering Tamra’s issues with deflection and her inability to accept blame. “Watching Tamra talk with her mom about her lacking in communication skills is exactly what I have experienced with her as well. Tamra blaming everyone else and not taking accountability for her own actions is typical. I’m so tired of Tamra constantly talking about how “I ATTACKED HER MARRIAGE”, because she knows it is the farthest thing from the truth. She is focused on this to attempt to get others to be on her side and to take the focus off of her own issues. The fact is the fact. I didn’t attack her marriage – I want her happy. But the truth is, I don’t want to continue to talk about it publicly or privately because I don’t care one way or another. Tamra is the one who keeps bringing it up, not me. I don’t care about it – it’s dead to me.”
Vicki blogs that she is convinced that Tamra is unhappy and “as usual, Tamra is projecting to attempt to influence others.” She adds, “I am going to tread lightly here because, as Kelly and all of us know, when Tamra perceives somebody is “talking about her family” she gets livid. However, since TAMRA MADE HER FAMILY ISSUES A FOCAL POINT, I think I understand how Tamra’s attitude, vitriol, and behavior towards “family” affects our relationship. She seems to be always MAD all the time. If it’s not with me, it’s with someone else.”
She touches on Tamra‘s admitted history with ostracizing those she loves, “Now, with me, at one time her closest friends, her virtual sister, she is ostracizing me. Lashing out. Perpetuating her lie that I lied. Anything to hurt the person she perceives hurt her. Tamra said, “in my head, Vicki is dead”. Sound familiar? What did I really do to her? Did my ex BF really have that much of an impact on her life? Is it life altering to her that I had a private conversation about Eddie with Kelly? Did I steal from her, murder someone or do something unethical? NO! I repeated a rumor that was already out there. Enough! Why can’t she let it go? DEFLECTION!!”
She thinks Tamra is trying to spin things to get people on her side and to continue bringing up the whole Brooks/cancer debacle. “Towards the end of the episode in the wake for her browbeating Peggy, Tamra says “she is pissed”. Then in the limo with Shannon when she is spinning what happened she repeats her big lie again, that I lied about “Brooks having cancer”. Why is she so fixated on this? I have explained over and over again about my past relationship with him and she doesn’t want to hear or listen to me. What benefit did I get by this so called “lie”? Hasn’t she read his statements that I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM REVEALING HIS FALSE RECORDS…THAT WAS 100% HIS DOING. I have lost three loved ones in the recent past from cancer and it’s disgusting to hear her keep saying this. Well, now I’m pissed too. A lie about a lie is still a lie. I can’t figure out why they are SO fixated on him!! I am the one who was hurt, I am the one who lost time and money by dating him which I will never get back. They lost NOTHING on his shenanigans. I’ll never know why he did what he did, but it’s been over 2 1/2 years and I’m trying to move on. Every time I hear them mention his name it makes me sick to my stomach. MOVE ON!!!”
Vicki is tired of Tamra‘s projections, “My sentiments to Tamra are this: Stop trying to turn my friends against me. Stop trying to destroy my life with your accusations. Stop projecting your insecurities and bitterness on me. Stop lying about me and please let’s move on!”
She gets a few religious digs in before she’s done, “I hope that Tamra sincerely starts trying to truly live the Christian life she professes she does. She needs to start by opening her heart, forgive, and put all this negativity behind and stop dwelling on things that are not true. Once she does, I am sure she will be much happier and then hopefully we can be back to being friends. I can have “hope” now can’t I?”
On tonight’s episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County, “Vicki gets green with envy when she learns that Kelly is planning on celebrating St. Patrick’s Day with Shannon and Meghan. Peggy learns that something got lost in translation between her and Tamra at the Nobleman Launch Party. Lydia ponders if her son’s dreadful prophecy will come true as she competes in a Spartan Race with Tamra, Eddie, Doug and David. Meghan hopes Irish eyes will be a smilin’ upon Shannon and Kelly as they engage in a heavy pour of whiskey and whimsy.”
The drunk-fest kicks off at 9/8 C, so join us back here in the comments so we can all live-snark the mess together!
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