For a guy who claims he wants to live a private life away from the spotlight, Brooks Ayers sure spends a lot of time talking to the press. The former Real Housewives of Orange County cast member is now giving statements about wanting to be left out of future conversations, especially those regarding his cancer storyline.
Just when we had almost forgotten him, Brooks pops back up by giving yet another statement, with his version of the past five years of his life with Vicki Gunvalson. And begging to be left alone to live a quiet and private life battling his disease and working on his career.
Brooks starts off, “Once and for all, I would like to address several issues concerning my life that keep circulating in the media that I would like to clarify and get out. I completely understand that people may not believe what I am saying to be true, yet it will not keep me from telling my side of the story along with my rationale as to why I did what I did as it relates to my health and my private life.” Wait, didn’t he give his side of the story like ninety billion times already in big exclusives and one-on-one sit downs?
He continues, painting a picture of a man seriously misunderstood and made out to be the bad guy. “Since I began dating Vicki in the Fall of 2010, I was the subject of much ridicule and hate. I underestimated the power of social media, fellow cast mates’ accusations, and others from my past that were given a platform to air their grievances toward me. No one is perfect. I have made my share of mistakes which I regret. I pride myself in apologizing when I am wrong or have wronged others either intentionally or unintentionally. Through the first five years of dating Vicki, I was coined as a con man, low life, gold digger, dead beat, etc. Nothing could be further from the truth in reality, yet this alone makes for great TV and for controversy. Vicki is a lot of things, but stupid? Hardly. A liar? Hardly. She is known for being a driven workaholic who demands perfection. One of Vicki’s famous quotes is: You don’t mess with her family or her money. To say that I took advantage of her in these ways is absolutely disgusting and quite frankly one must “consider the source” for anyone who discounts her ability to make her own mature decisions. The same is true about me. What one never saw was my drive professionally to continue to provide for my kids and advance my career. When it comes to a TV show, drama sells and every story needs a villain and I was the villain.”
He doesn’t tell us anything new here, “Now, onto the reason why I am writing this. Prior to filming Season 10 (which began in December 2014), I was given the unfortunate news of my cancer diagnosis. Having lived under public scrutiny for the prior five years along with being wrongfully positioned as something that I wasn’t and knowing that I had a large battle ahead of me, I simply made a request to Vicki that we deal with this in a very private manner so as to keep out the noise of any questioning of my treatment choices moving forward. After all, it was MY choice and no one else’s. However, Vicki felt compelled to share a private email later that night with Tamra Judge and Lauri Peterson along with a text to Shannon Beador asking for all of their support during this time rather than conflict. I was not okay with that at all when I found out about it, however the information about my diagnosis was out. I was approached by a few media outlets to confirm my diagnosis and made a calculated decision to address it via a statement and an on camera interview in hopes that we would “put this to bed” and allow me to move forward in private. When filming began, so did the gossip with the women introducing my diagnosis on the show by referencing a blog and a Psychic’s “feeling” that there was no cancer. Looking back, it was quite ridiculous actually.”
“As the season progressed, I grew more weary of the foolishness of all of the antics of Vicki’s friends which, in turn, created enormous pressure on our relationship. As a result, while filming continued I began to not include Vicki in any of my medical appointments and/or details because I simply wanted to be left alone. It wasn’t because I had anything to hide, yet I wasn’t going to be bullied into doing something that I wasn’t comfortable revealing to coworkers/cast mates of Vicki’s who did not have my best interest at heart. Vicki and I broke up in July 2015 while Season 10 was still airing. I took the opportunity to share my frustrations of the past five years in various media outlets for the sole purpose to demonstrate to the world that I too could manufacture “gossip/fakeness” and create a lot of unnecessary drama that simply didn’t make any sense. I have since apologized in a statement that showing fake documents was absolutely wrong, that Vicki did not have anything to do with it and hindsight I should have never showed anything at all.” Ya think?
Now he defends Vicki’s lack of knowledge of things (hoping to smooth things over for her before the new season kicks off?). “In closing, I would like to address a couple of additional issues. First, Vicki was not “in on any cancer scam or created storyline.” There is no scam. I simply didn’t continue to give her information about my illness when I learned of the devious nature and intentions of the cast. Second, Vicki never has paid me to be quiet regarding this “supposed” scam nor has paid me to release any statements. Again, just because I am exercising my right to NOT share my actual medical records doesn’t mean that I am guilty of making something like this up. Who even would question anyone dealing with this disease?” We would. Shannon would. Meagan would. The entire RHOC viewing audience would.
Brooks just wants to be left alone, which probably means he’s hoping the producers and cast leave his cancer document lies out of the new season. “Finally, I would respectfully ask that one would recognize that I am no longer on the show as I have moved on with my life in the private world and am requesting to leave me out of future discussions or conversations. Vicki was my partner for five years and I believe the show was the demise of our relationship. She is a woman of integrity and compassion, and would never lie about something so serious as this.”
Sorry, Brooks. There is a new season filming and the cancer document lies were huge. There’s no way it won’t be discussed, especially given the state of Vicki’s friendships with her castmates because of the cancer lies and nonsense last season. You participated in a reality show and were a major storyline last season. You cannot expect to be left out of the discussions to come. That’s not the way reality TV works.
(Although there are a few reality TV cast members we WISH we could forget and move on without ever mentioning again… but I digress.)
UPDATE: Vicki’s PR rep sent over this statement from Vicki: “First of all I would like to thank Brooks for once and for all speaking out on this, and for reiterating what I have said numerous times. Over the last year I have been bullied, belittled, and humiliated by viewers, the media, and my so called ‘friends’. I am not now, nor have I ever been involved in covering for Brooks. I continue to wish him nothing but the best and hope that we can both now move past this difficult chapter in our lives.”
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